Is it normal that i'm in love with a couple?

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So I know this couple... and at first I thought I was a bit jealous of the guy, because I used to date his girlfriend and still sort of liked her. But then as I hung out with him more I realized we got along fantastically and I really liked him and connected with him, and was very attracted to him because of that. And then I started hanging out with both of them together quite a lot, and I realized that even as I was individually attached and attracted to both of them, when they were together I was infinitely more so. They balance each other out perfectly, and I feel pretty strongly about them and just want them to let me in.

No, this is not me trying to find substitute parents or something fucked up like that- my parents are very much present and supportive in my life, thankyouverymuch. I honestly think I've just fallen in love with a couple, and no amount of desperate googling will bring up a similar case. I can't be the only one. Is this normal?

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  • Chibi_Ranger
    12 years ago

    It's not common, but not abnormal. You feel romantically for both, one through experience and unended feelings, the other through compatible interactions, and want to be with both of them. Though I'm not sure how they feel for you..

    If you believe they feel the same way through body language, then talk to the guy first. You wouldn't want the girl to think you're trying to ruin their relationship out of desperate jealousy. Then, subtly let the girl know you're interested in her (still) and get the guy to imply a threesome connection. I won't instantly assume you just want to try sex, but trio's don't last long.

    If they don't reciprocate your attraction, well, you'll just have to let it go.

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  • Knight_Riot
    12 years ago

    I think it just boils down too you got to figure out what that love means, if ur sexualy attracted to the guy and girl then sex is sex if its two people three people doin it, or doin it by your self lol. But ur obvioulsly bi, u might just be in love with tha relationship not just the couple, im not gona say jelious because it sounds like u appreciate them as people but u might just be longing for that connection they share, that counter balance they share. Either way you want to be sure u find out what that love means before u make a move on it bcuz it sounds like thies people are close to u and u needa be sure that they wouldnt be freaked out by it so employ good judgement if u are thinking about acting on it. But like I said u might just be longing for that connection they have and want something like that 4 yourself. Just try to find out what that love means and youll be good... One Love Friend...

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    • Knight_Riot
      12 years ago

      Id say its normal bcuz love is love no matter where its directed and love is normal...

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  • Kutieadb
    12 years ago

    I think love is love, unless this has only begun and you kind of in the honeymoon phase... I don't know, give it time.

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