Is it normal that i'm having a hard time keeping my head straight?

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I have been recently aquainted with my old crushes (crushing for about a year lol) and I've told 1 of the two I still had a crush on her and she was like "What?! Seriously?" and i was like "IKR.. Yeah" and we just got to talking. She's also forgotten that i've had a gf too. I'm led to believe that she refused to think about it. We've been out of contact for some months if not a year and she's just been acting a bit differently around me. I'm not so sure about her and her actions lol.

Crush #2

Her and I are polar opposites yet we get along so well. It's always laughs and jokes between us. One night (quite recent) we talked just about random stuff and then i found out that she pays attention to me when i do stuff.. I don't understand that but she's told me that she's always has. Weird..?

Girlfriend

Her and I are going good at the moment. I love her and do not have any regrets. We've hit a bump in the road and that "bump" is our communication. Her phone has been broken for about month 2 in our 3 month relationship and it sucks and before the previous week was up.. I only saw her for the day (Reasoning: She's had the flu and i caught it for a short period of time). Oddly, she cares about me. I have to avoid saying certain things that's happened to me cause her face will go from innocent and content to concerned and worried. (Scary o.o)

As of now.. I'm just in a paradox of "wtf". Cause i'm trying hard to make sure i don't catch any continued feelings for any of my crushes and actually Crush #2 will be the hardest. The day i was with my gf she wanted to be with my and you know chill with me too, but i feel as if she likes me as much as she might show it. I can't really explain it yet. She's weird, haha.

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    It sounds like you need to not have a girlfriend and should just play the field. That's not a crime as long as you're honest about it. Otherwise, you'll try to be a faithful boyfriend and always wonder "what if." Don't stay in a relationship you aren't 100 percent committed to, especially if it's only been going on a few months.

    If you still have crushes on other people, you should be dating casually, not in an exclusive relationship. It isn't fair to you or your GF.

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    • NorthC
      11 years ago

      Yes, i understand fully.

      I figured out what I had to do.. I realized i'm not as interested in them as i am with my girlfriend. I'm not to good with my emotions, but i'm able to let my guard down around her. Not like anyone else.. Even family. It's weird.. I'm critically defensive. '-'

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