Is it normal that i'm have a boyfriend but i like someone else?

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Is it normal that I like someone else but I have a boyfriend? I like my boyfriend and all but theirs this other guy who I've liked since before I even started dating my boyfriend of 2 months now. He's in one of my classes and I liked him but he's very shy and so am I. So I don't really ask people out and he wasn't going to ask me out, and when my boyfriend I have now came along and asked me out I said yes because he's a very nice guy and he's very good looking and I figured their's no point in me waiting for some guy when it won't ever happen. I figured the feelings would go away! But they haven't, they've just gotten more confusing because I really like my boyfriend I have now, but the feeling for this other guy have stayed and it makes my head hurt just writing this. I feel guilty because I feel like it's almost as though I cheating on my boyfriend but I'm not.

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  • atasha101
    11 years ago

    I understand the situation you are in is quite complicated but you have to know that you can't have two guys. Try to contemplate if who between the two you are more in love with. The sooner you figure it out the better because you might lose both in the end. Just be wise.

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    I have that effect on people sorry, or is it affect...hmmm well either way they dont like me for my mind anywaay, its all for my sweet sweet ass

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  • ceagl
    11 years ago

    They whole reason for dating is to find a person that is best suited for you. There are many people you can be compatible with but you should find the best one you can be with long term. You're not married to the bf so keep your options open so you don't shut out what could be a better match for yourself.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I don't think either is true.

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  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    Why couldn't you try asking the guy out if he wasnt going to ask you. Its not right to go out with someone while harboring feelings for another. He deserves someone who will love and cherish him the way he does to you.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    If you don't figure this out now, you are going to have problems later on in life.

    If you don't feel that you can commit to a serious relationship, then don't do it. That being said, many of us want what we don't have, you have a good guy now and you are happy in your relationship, yes? Then I don't see the problem.

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