Is it normal that i'm getting close to a person who is of my father age?

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Hi all, I'm 25 year old. i had a relationship for almost 2 years during my college days. That is my first ever love. And after college finished he got more busy and ignorant towards me. And after few months i came to Dubai for my job purpose with one of my close family friend. He is 48 and we got very friendly after reaching here. I used to share everything with him including about my relationship. He care me and pamper me a lot and used to touch me, first i felt very uncomfortable and i told him also, then slowly i'm also used to it. And i also feel very happy to spent time with him, but i don't see him in any wrong way, and my parents trust him more than anything, still sometimes i feel he crosses his limits, but i don't want to hurt him, so i remained silent. Now i'm in a state that i don't know what to do, i do want his company but i don't want this goes in a wrong direction.

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  • Bambooshabba
    5 years ago

    If you sounded like you like him then I wouldn't see an issue but this sounds like unwanted attention. If you have a good relationship with one of your parents or another family member maybe let them know? Don't get used to things your uncomfortable with, stand against it, good luck x

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  • bsnews
    5 years ago

    Your future depends on u.do that what is right for u

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Age doesn't matter once you're an adult, but at the moment you just like the attention since you're currently single. I'll be honest, he's not a good guy.

    Think about it, he touched you while you were in a relationship. It's obvious you were uncomfortable with it and told him, but he kept it up. He's doing it so much that you just learned to accept it, which is what he wanted to begin with. Men who care about any woman don't do this; him disregarding your feelings is a huge sign of disrespect. Basically, he's playing the long game; he already has your parent's trust and you're just ignorant to his advances, so all he needs to do is wear you down with listening to your problems, giving you flimsy advice, and making you comfortable with his touch until you spread your legs eventually.

    At the end of the day, if you're feeling lonely and you want to have sex, he's the guy for you. If you want a real relationship with someone you can see yourself growing old with with, search a little more for someone who will show you genuine respect or at least treat you like a person and not a potential sex toy.

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    • Gayathri
      5 years ago

      Thank you very much. Al though i knew this is not good still somewhere in my mind i like to be with him (Not in a wrong way). Because i feel terrible alone.

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  • Mark92
    5 years ago

    Age doesn't matter in true love as long as you are legal adults. life is short, so enjoy your life with anyone you want, the way you want...

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