Is it normal that i'm gay and only attracted to straight guys?

K this is my first is it normal so here it goes. I'm a soon to be 20 year old gay guy and for some reason I ONLY find myself becoming attracted to straight men, more importanly I know for a fact that I'll never be with but I instantly fall in love/lust with them. I really want to have a boyfriend but other gay men normally annoy me for some reason. It causes me to become depressed easily and is downright annoying as hell. Idk WTF to do to make myself stop doing this.

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  • brad14h

    I'm the same way mang
    I almost hate femme gay guys their really annoying to me like grow a set lol

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    • are you for real

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      • wannabeincomedy

        im fairly the grow a set thing was a joke.

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  • ksigman77

    DUDE!!!!!!! Welcome to my world. I am so attracted to str8 guys. No worries you are totally normal. I dont think it is wanting what you cant have... I just think it is liking a certain type. Some gay guys like little twinks, others like bears, some like older guys.... Me? Gimme a str8 guy any day of the week, and twice on Sunday!!!

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    • kidfromflorida

      amennn

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      • you straight men are joking right

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    • really

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  • TisNormalindeed

    you like a challenge

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  • coolet

    thats ok..ur not alone dude..count me in..

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  • gleekfreak92

    I wish we could meet, cause that shit is happening to me. I was being stalked by an attractive gay guy, that i can't stand, yet i want these two straight guys so bad that i kinda stalk them... I love sex and I don't really want a romantic relationship, just sex... But that will never happen with one of the guys, the other, my gaydar doesn't work on.

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  • randomjelly

    Oh and there is NO such thing as a straight man.

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    What we can't have eludes us. Just tell me I can't have spinach, and I will knock the door down, even though I'm not crXy about spinach. For you, you know that straight guys are something you can't have. That makes for a stronger desire to have one. Gay guys, you ignore because the challenge is nil. Do a reality check from time to time. When your licking your chops over a straight man, stop! Remind yourself of what you are doing. Awareness is half the solution

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  • Deannie.td

    I'm like That Attracted to the straight guys with swagg. I couldn't date a gay guy tho . try I'm gay attracted to straight guys . not a good thing .!

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  • I feel the same way, dude. I'm probably the only bi guy within 100 miles from where I live. Don't worry. You are normal.

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  • dbell930

    Actually it is normal to be gay. Even animals are (i.e. Monkeys, dolphins, gorillas, even dogs) there are documentaries and studies about it. So go educate yourself on the matter. And it's not like I CHOSE to be gay. I didn't just wake up one day and decide to suck a dick, just like you didn't wake up one day and decided you like vagina.

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  • jcunningham18

    Story of my life man. I think it's healthy to have a variety of friends...gay, straight, efeminite, butch...but you cant help what you're attracted to. There's nothing wrong with being a feminine gay guy. That's just who they are. I'm attracted to straight acting gay men, not because I don't want people to know I'm gay. Just because that's what I find attractive. I've been single for 2 years now. Don't worry. Someone will come along. I know everyone says that, but it's true.

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  • Kind of like a forbidden lust :)

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  • El3tricB3@r

    Well i am the same way. Actually i have a strange relationship with my Straight best friend..the first time i saw him at work i fell in love with him. Of Course he didnt know at the time i was gay and i wasnt exactly open to the public.but of the course of a couple of weeks i had to tell him and to tell him how much i would love to go down on him. Well that was 5 years ago. and now we are the best of friends and i keep telling him one day i will rape him.lol.. every now and then he will send me a nude pic so i can have something to jo too. come to think about it this sounds like one of those IIN questions.. lol is my relationship with him normal.. btw his wife, son and him live with me and my mom. and me and him now have jobs that take us all over the states of course its never together.

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  • forevermyself

    I have the same issue, there's just something about straight guys that you don't get from gays, I know how you feel

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  • mew123mew

    ok im a straight girl but i have this friend, well best friend, who is gay. he is 1 of those guys who u is gay, proud, and shows it. well he keeps turning my straight lonely friends gay/bi. it appears u hav the same problem.

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  • Biohazard

    meet some bisexual men! maybe u can find some very manly gay men too! trust me, there's plenty of those!

    :)

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  • omaclean

    not gay. just finding it convenient to go for people who aren't available

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  • gowila

    Go on the Internet gay dating sights. You will find heaps of gay men that look and act as straight as an arrow, you would have had no idea they were gay otherwise

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  • dbell930

    Wow I didn't realize how many other gay guys used IIN, nice to know I'm not alone :) thanks for trying to help

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  • neptune692

    Completally normal.

    Good Luck

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  • Maybe you're turned on by the fact that you want something but can't have it. K

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  • that sucks man, try a dating site, i love waking up to some fresh cum(:

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  • Tammy2tone

    Very normal. Tells me that you wish you were a female.

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  • wannabeincomedy

    No im 20 and I think i can diagnose the problem. list top three things you associate with gay men.

    Now let me tell you a story and see if you relate.

    I used to have a gay friend I liked as a person but not sexually. He asked me out but I said no because he was wimpy and not very..... confident and he let people push him around. But i met him last month and he is now a confident gutsy professional man. I now want him more than a cure for the common cold.

    It's a matter of respect i have to respect a man before i can get interested in him. And I just don't respect weak willed submissive guys. Its nothing personal I don't hate these people but yeah they do sometimes annoy me.

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  • datwildcrazykid

    I know 100% what you mean! I am gay but you would never know it unless I told you. Everyone says I "act" straight. I am only attracted to straight guys or gays that act like me. I don't like the girly gays at all! In fact I think there the reason why its sterotyped. I wish there were just normal acting gay guys out there /:

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  • assfucking cock sucking no

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  • unspoken4life

    I thought I was alone but is so good to see that there is other people out here on the same boat

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  • cv2011

    jb

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  • HaruHaru

    I'm a girl and I think it's normal for you, I mean, I have nothing against gay men at all, but from how I see it, your situation is like one of us(NO, not a woman, just attracted to men how a woman is.. except different of course) I know for a fact though that there are men out there that you would absolutely not be able to tell was gay, they flirt and act straight to the max. I wouldn't say take your chances out in the real world, because you'd most probably get hurt but a dating site sounds good. I don't think you should get too upset about it though, when the time comes, finding the right guy will be worth it. :)

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  • jeet

    it is normal

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  • _love_

    this is normal because im a lesbian myself and im attracted to straight girls...try a gay dating site or a gay bar...

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  • Melodicbrush

    Rofl, good luck rotting alone in life.

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  • you will be hurt like hell. straight guys are of different species. they have a mind and girls circulates inside it. white girls, black girls, asian girls. girls rule them!

    i would suggest that straight guys are a flag for warning!!!! stop and dont even get close!

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  • Geratwo

    haha, thats weird man... but that doesnt mean it isnt normal, just a fetish

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  • theWARwhore

    I don't know wut to say

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  • randomjelly

    You're 20...trust me when I say you will grow out of it.

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  • Ok im straight and female..gays are Usually anoying and scrawny(no offence) like wemon the probly like the built muscular sexy men...there is hat ur looking for not strait men but gay strong hot men make sence?! I hope this helped(: best of luck

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  • SweetSherry

    Careful you don't come across the wrong straight guy that will beat your ass or worse kill you you better keep that nastiest to yourself dunno if you heard about a little fag that asked his straight male classmate to be his date at a school dance the straight kid was so mad he went home got his dad's gun went to school the next day and shot the queer kid dead now if you've never heard about google it mingle with your own nasty immoral faggoty ass kind and fuck off away from straight guys

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    • opossum

      Man, shut the fuck up. You prejudiced asshole.

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  • fu11c1ip

    hey guess what! its not even normal to be gay so ur question is redundant lawl. count it.

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