Is it normal that i'm gay and i don't like gay people?

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Ok, so I am gay and I've known since I was 17. I came out at 18, and I'm 20 now. I have yet to have a relationship with a man. I just can't do it. I have had two sexual encounters with men, both of which I strongly regretted. I just don't like gay people and I'm completely uncomfortable around them. I hate being gay, but I channel that anxiety and fear into extremely high achievement. I have absolutely no gay friends. I have a positive impression about one gay person that I know out of at least ten. I have always said, and I always will say, people shouldn't try to act gay. When I meet a gay person whose actions and mannerisms don't make me feel extremely uncomfortable, I will consider something. But until then, I'm not doing it myself. Is that delusional or crazy?

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    i find that odd as well, why do some gay guys act so wierd? Just because their gay, they shouldent act like some stereotypical diva girl.

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  • dtclark
    12 years ago

    I can completely relate to how you feel. I'm 20 years old as well and i also came out when i was 17/18. I've been through it all with guys, dozens of gay guys and i no longer have or had any gay friends. I also have never been in a relationship, neither with a guy or girl. I've tried so many times, and it just doesn't work for me.. So now to this day i think everyday how i cannot stand other gay men because of the fact they are fake, liars, cheaters, sex addicts, drama queens that are only out there to hurt other guys..they think it is okay to live out their lives being a certain way, which i think is all a fake act. Most don't even want relationships, just a quck fuck for their dick to get wet! And that is not okay with my values, so instead i try to focus on ME and what i do. Im a real, caring, compassionate person and stayin strong, despite all the hardships i have faced.

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  • Boris1974
    12 years ago

    I have a friend who's black and he hates black people.

    I've always found that rather odd...

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  • Sebby747
    12 years ago

    Im exactly the same as you. The over gay ones are the reason why we dont have equal rights. No one likes a dude who thinks he has a vagina.

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