Is it normal that i'm feeling upset about his friendship

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Well basically my boyfriend has a girl best friend which I have no problem because I myself have my guy friend. I never had a problem with their relationship. I even encouraged them to hang out more often. The problem happened when on my boyfriends birthday they decided to go to another state when my bf clearly told me he was going with his GUY friends which I was hurt because Im his gf why didn't he spend his bday with me but i got over it A couple of days later through Facebook I saw that it wasn't with his it was with his girl best friend I was furious first because why would he lie ?second he told me that if I wouldn't have told him to come back that day he would've slept over there meaning he would've stayed in a hotel with her wth is that!!! I would never do that with my guy best friend it is DISRESPECTFUL in my opinion towards my relationship. I forgave him for that but then knowing that I was upset about the whole trip she invited him to Vegas for her birthday that again upset me further. She would call him at night talking about how she was lonely & need him to go out for dinner at 1 am ummm who does that. I have my guy friend he has his gf and I have my bf we are great friends hang out but still have boundaries it's gotten to the point that I cannot stand to hear her name it boils my blood I told my bf of this & he basically said that he would not leave her for me basically picking her over me he Even started comparing her to me !!!!! He even said that spending time with her is more peaceful because she actually gets him i feel heartbroken because he makes me feel like the jealous one when clearly that's not the case. I just feel so disrespected. He starts to joke about what I feel & say that I'm soo jealous. So is it normal that I can't stand her

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Don't fool yourself, you know what's going on. Leave him!

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    Oh hell no. I went through this rendezvous with my ex who liked my sister. Everything she said was sooo funnnyy, even if I just told him that same joke yesterday ;/ He started hanging out with her 1 on 1. It was total bullshit, I had to be an idiot not to see what was going on. So I asked him straight up and dumped his ass. 5years down the drain right there.
    Reading your story reminded me a lot of that time. Even if he isn't in love with her, and he's not cheating, making you feel like that is good enough reason to dump him. That feeling isn't going to go away even if he starts to smarten up. You'll always remember that he thinks she's "easier to get along with" etc...and be jealous. Dump his stupid ass and find someone who makes you happy

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Woah eyes bleeding.

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  • Ironbatman
    9 years ago

    Someone is jelly
    She is prob just a better friend to him then you are a girl fried and I'm assuming they have been friends a long time but if they just meet then he is a dick but if they have known earth other way longer you have known him , it's not surprising ing him choosing her over you since she has been there from him and you have not.
    But is he meet her not long ago then there is something wrong.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    You accept far more than you need to do.

    Confront, demand a change- If no such thing happen, dump him.

    And please, please don't believe his lies and excuses.

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  • Dashyangelxx
    10 years ago

    Okay I think u can see what's going on here... Just LEAVE HIM !

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