Is it normal that i'm feeling like this ?

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hi
i'm a 18 year old girl .. I have this friend that I've been with for so long
since we were kids .. and we really r best friends we care about each other and know each other very well and spend alot of time togther
but a year ago I started to have this feelings for her
it's not sexual or anything but when she's around me I always want to kiss her and hug her and she seems to like this
I never felt like this for a girl before or even looked to a girl like this
I've always liked boys and I still like boys but I dont know .. I feel confused and I don't want to feel like this in somehow I feel Guilty for thinking about it .. it makes me feel that i'm doing somthing wrong I don't know
so how can I get over these feelings I have for her and still best friend with her ?
Because I don't want to lose her

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Based on 39 votes (32 yes)
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  • Who_Fan4Life
    11 years ago

    ''I kissed a girl and I liked it!''

    See now, if Katy Perry can do it, you can too!

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    • rose123
      11 years ago

      LOL .. you make it seems very easy :P

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  • krisichi
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's because she's truly your best friend and she's way more than your best friend. Not way more as in relationship wise but that you love her as if she was family or maybe even more than that but just not sexually. You said not sexually and kissing and hugging are family things. Maybe you guys just really care about each other like family. Does that make sense?

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    • rose123
      11 years ago

      yes .. it make alot of sense :)
      but maybe I haven't been Specific whene I said " I want to kiss her "
      I sometimes want to kiss her like in the mouth .. and I'm sure I don't want to kiss any one of my family like this :P
      I've always think of her more than friend but not in relationship wise like you said .. but latly I've been feeling like this..like I want to kiss her .. and i'm afraid that these feelings may grow and become more than that ..
      so I want to find a way to stop this but without effecting our friendship
      like I said I want to still best friend with her but without the fear of seeing her more than that
      do u understand me ?! :)

      :P
      p.s sorry for my english :P

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  • IFeelUdude
    11 years ago

    Oh and yea.. I really wanted to kiss her... I was so angry and sad... It hurt

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  • IFeelUdude
    11 years ago

    Wow... Gurl I feel da same thing... Theres dis girl who I really like... I imagine bout her.. I dream bout her... Since the first time I met her I just... Like wow... I REALLY try to impress her... I want to be friends wif her.. But she like ignrores me... There was a time we were real close.. But then the next day.. I just betrayed her... I really didn't mean to.. After all.. I gave her money... :/ she never even paid me bac or said thx... I gave her the specialist bracelet.. That I never gave anyone.. I was so nice to her.. Etc.. I moved school and house and couldnt really stay contact wif her.. Well I thought she didactic acted her facebook account but I went on Fb just to stay contact wif my old friends (secretly without my parents knowing I hav Facebook ... I added her.. I chattd.. All she said was... Yea cool watever seeya... I was...:( <\3 ... I really Lov her.. And she don't KNOE that.. I also know this is Definetly not ur answer or question but I just felt like telling u... :( Plz don't dis like o.....

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    • whatrudoing
      11 years ago

      This isn't about u

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