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I met a girl on the Internet and basically she's a goddess. We talk every day, and I write her poems and we want to meet this summer. We've sent pictures and we love all the same stuff and understand each other.
Dude, please tell me that you have:
google image searched her pictures.
Seen her in videochat.
Talked to her and heard her voice.
Because if you haven't you are probably being tricked.
Yeah. Save a picture to your computer. Then go to google and enter the image section. While there you should be able to see a tiny camera where you enter your search-phrase and there you can upload a picture and search for it. It isn't 100% bullet proof but at least you will know if that hot girl from Canada is in fact a super model from Spain.
I agree with you there but, even talking on the phone is not always substantial. There exists software that can alter a person's voice. Or, in the case of that Football player who was apparently catfished, someone else could be pretending to be that person.
Is it infatuation, or actual love? To me love is when you know someone's faults and even the darkest aspects of their life, their imperfections, their quirks - and still love them for it. I'm not going to invalidate your feelings, but it could be mere infatuation. I wouldn't get married or anything haha but hey, if you two are healthy and happy, then good for you!
Normal? I suppose so. Best of luck.
Hey, this is the person that wrote this post. First of all, you're all assuming that I'm a guy when I'm a girl. Secondly, we've talked on the phone. Thirdly, we constantly send each other selfies.
We've talked about our problems and joys, and I'm planning to go meet her this summer.
Oh dear another one has the wool pulled over his eyes.
The Internet is full of tricksy little hobbits just ask Gollum he'll tell you.
Oh... That's what happened to me, too! Hehe... But, instead, we met in person. We knew eachother years before, but never talked.
What the fuck... I remember AOL as a teen but at least I would ask local chicks to hangout and I'd pick em up. The best way to meet a girl online is to carry the convo OFFline ASAP homie. Ask for the number, talk a few times and then kick it with her asap.
Agreed with everyone else, slow your roll turbo. She could be everything that you think she is, in which case i'm happy for you. On the other side of things, ya don't wanna get catfished!
Whoa, there cowboy. Slow that pony down. You could be headed for a lot of heartbreak here. As so many above have mentioned, you do not "know" this person at all, not one tiny bit. You only know what this person wants you to know and there is no guaranty that anything is real.
Go slowly and do not invest too much emotion on this yet.
As with the others, good luck.
Its relatively easy to be an internet godess, if you only show people the good side of you. Over the internet, you only show what you want people to see. I dont form internet loves because I don't want to be duped. Just be careful and wary!! There is always the possibility that she is not who she says she is.
I heard a story about a guy who pretended to be a lesbian to attract a lesbian online. It was later figured out that they were both men pretending to be lesbians. I dont understand how anyone can be attracted to someone they havent actually met.
In regards to you last sentence, it is probably more infatuation than actual love.
There was an episode of "My Family", that had a similar plot. Their son, Nick, claimed to have had a girlfriend, whom he met online, and invited her to his house. Well, she comes and it turns out that she was a French lesbian who thought that "Nicky" (Nick), was his sister because, he led her into believing that he was a lesbian as well.
best advice, i can give you, is that to hope for the best, but dont put all your eggs in one basket. and goodluck