Is it normal that i'm embarrassed of...

Okay please take my comment into serious consideration. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. The first year, I felt the exact same way. But really, the more I realized how much i love him and why I loved him, it didn't matter. First of all, we were 15, so puberty gets the worst of EVERYBODY. You are most likely a teenager. And his chessiness, embrace it. So he might be a little wierd, but again, y'all are most likely teenagers so everyone is wierd. But when I started realizing how much I love him, one of the main reasons was because of his cheesiness. I found it extremely cute. And the wierd ones end up being the sweetest and coolest ones. So please stop caring what everyone else thinks. Everyone is insecure. But trust me, within 3 days, teenagers find something else to judge. The only reason they judge on the first place is for fear of being judged. But if you legitamitely like him, give him a chance. You definitely will not regret it.

I once failed to date a guy because all of my friends though he was a little strange. In truth, he was a little strange, but there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, over time I began to like his strangeness...and found that he was one of the most caring and loving people I had ever met...I fell in love with him. But, I was too embarrassed to admit that to my friends...or even myself, for that matter...and so we never dated. I regret that every day of my life. I realized that I cared SO much about what people thought of me, that I had possibly passed up the best experience of my life. That is not normal!

not really normal. if you're really in love with him so you shouldn't be embarrassed of him. and everybody who say hes ugly and stuff just tell them to screw off.

Dont be so shallow, or else he will find out and never want to see you again

felt the same way.

I actually know what it feels like when people whom I call "friends" treated me the way you treated yours. It is sad that some people are vain enough to allow the opinions of others to destroy a beautiful friendship that may take some people a lifetime to discover. If you are a true friend then you would stand up for him and feel proud of him. If you are not then perhaps you are using him for some apparent reasons or you are really a coward. I suggest that you face your own ugliness before you point out the ugliness in others. You are truly beautiful when you don't allow your insecurity to cause harm to others. I hope this helps!

Yeah. I know I was once embarrassed of a guy and I am still to this very day

what matters is what YOU like. don't let those freaks judge you, this is NOT american idol.

im in the same situation, & HONESTLY, i don't give a flying freak what peoplle think. they can suck it cuz i'll go wit whoever i want. YOU can do the same. just don't listen to people.

The fact that you still love him pretty much sums up your commitment to them

Idk if that's normal

I guess it's normal, but it isn't necessarily right. What are you so afraid of? Your friends will be your friends no matter who you date, and none of them would make fun of you or him for it... At least they shouldn't, otherwise they're just not very good friends. And life is too short to be that concerned with how others see you or think if you. Plus, your friends should always be supportive of you:]

The only opinion of the person that you are with that matters is yours. If you love him you should be proud that you have found some that makes you truely happy, lots of people never find that. Friends come and go, don't let them dictate to you the type of person you decide to share your life with:)

If you love him dont let people put you off.