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I'm a young female and identify as gay. Around straight people though, I feel the need to hide it. Also, I am very pale and I prefer mixed girls. I feel like I don't really have the right to be into them, if that makes sense. I'm so ashamed that I feel this way, but I can't help it. Is it normal?
It is normal to feel you need to hide your sexuality but you shouldn't be ashamed. You can't choose your sexuality, try talking to more people that feel the same way as you. i hope you feel better!
So far it doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you. Maybe you're being too hard on yourself?
you have every right to be into mixed girls your race doesn't determine that. Don't be disgusted because of how you were born so stop being to ashamed of yourself and embrace it.
Unwarranted shame can be debilitating. Be earthy. Get naked in the sunshine. Above all else, be comfortable in your skin.
Don't be ashamed of any of that. You have every right to be into mixed chicks in the same way someone might be into red heads. People put way too much stock in skin color being a special difference. And being gay is awesome. Own it.
Ask some of your mixed girlfriends over one night and let them know what you want to do. Enjoy yourselves.
My girlfriends and are all enjoy each other when we get a chance.