Is it normal that i'm currently dating someone who slept with ten guys

60% Normal
5 Comments

So i met this girl in college and she's really nice and all but the only thing that bothers me is that she slept with ten guys and me? its 10-0. call me selfish and foolish but should i invest my time with this girl? I've been asking around my close friends and they all seem to say that if i really want to make it work then i will look pass it, but at this point it seems like an impossible hill to climb over. So is it normal for people to love each other regardless of past experience? (lol I'm pretty sure i just answered my own question) but it lingers in the back of my mind, what would you guys do or suggest? Taking all advice, thanks guys.

Voting Results
60% Normal
Based on 5 votes (3 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Unfortunately this is a fact of life nowadays with both female and makes. My wife had slept with a number of men before we met, nothing I could do about that, so had to just get on with my relationship with her and show her all the love I had for her. We have been happily married for nearly 30 years, so yes you may not like the fact she has slept around but if you find love between the two if you then there is no reason why you can't accept that this sort of thing happens nowadays

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    It is your problem not hers but that doesn't make it any less relevant. A relationship is a bond between 2 people and whether your issues are justified or not does not change the fact that they bother you. If you can get past this then good for you I wish the 2 of you a life time of happiness together, but if not, then don't say you're ok with it when you're not accept that it bothers you and move on you'll both be better off for it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    I don't understand what the issue is. Seems to be a guy problem, I guess tied in with the idea society has that women are not allowed to have or enjoy sex.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Cedric_Diggory
    7 years ago

    I am with you. I think you should even out the playing field by also sleeping with 10 guys pronto.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    you're right, the problem is me, not her. Thanks Darkoil.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0