Is it normal that i'm crushing on my girlfriends baby sis?

I've grown a liking to my gf's little sis. I've been with my gf for 5 years with some time off cuz she went bag to her sleazy ex. I've gotten close to her family but mainly her and her little sister who I've know through out the entire relationship. Together we've gone through tough times and they came to me for protection. Throughout the years things have gotten better and I've gotten even closer to her sister we joke around laugh cuddle and watch movies etc. but lately it's different we get close just me and her she'll lay with her back to me my arms wrapped around her waist or she'll press up against my chest as I hold her and she'll start to kiss me all over my face and lick and bite my face(playfully).I try to distance myself from her but it's hard since I see her everyday. She's started to grow up more and it's impossible for me to see her as a kid anymore I've tried. She's grown into unfortunately my type and it's hard to ignore we even joke about it and she tosses the fact in my face. We recently went costume shopping for Halloween and I was with my girlfriend and she with her boyfriend and when they turned around me and her were talking and she went to kiss my face (we all joke around and kiss our faces) but this time she kissed my lips and looked up at me waiting for me to react. I didn't. I texted her later on and told her I know she gets nervous and she made a mistake but I'm not mad and she told me "I wasn't scared to do it" she's 14...I'm 20 how am I supposed to handle this It's making a pit in my stomach feeling this way I feel guilty and odd but another part of me doesn't. Is it normal?

Yes 20
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Go see a therapist man 15
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  • handsignals

    I'm Chris Hanson, why don't you take a seat over there.

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  • sega31098

    It is normal to feel tempted, but do not act on it.

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    • dytrog

      I've seen mnany under age girls that I would love to fuck common sinse over rode doing it even I knew they were willing.

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  • Short4Words

    It's natural to feel tempted but don't ever mistake instinct for something more than what it is.

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    • Remylebeau

      That's what I'm thinking it's nothing but some horrible primal instinct

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      • Short4Words

        It is.

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  • Couman

    What does your girlfriend think of all this?

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    • Remylebeau

      She doesn't know and I can't even make the words to say it

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      • Couman

        Hm. So she's not even aware of any of her sister's flirty behavior towards you? Or do you think to her it appears totally innocent? Perhaps one way it discuss it would be to say she sometimes makes you uncomfortable and (as you put it here) she's not a kid anymore. You don't need to blurt out "I have a crush on your little sister".

        It's decidedly tricky situation, but it seems to me it might be better to get it out in the open somewhat.

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        • Remylebeau

          I'm looking for a private time to bring it up so we can discuss how to go about it since she is so young and I'm gonna assume has some innocence behind her actions it's a very uncomfortable situation but I feel at fault since I'm the adult in this

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  • NathanScot

    First of all,congrats mate for keeping a cool head in all this.Unfortunately the heart wants what the heart wants but i think 14 is too young for you.I know its a bitter pill to swallow mate but give it another 3 4 years b4 u pursue anything with the little lass.Cher"

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    • Remylebeau

      Never thought I'd be in this situation thank you for your opinion and not just insulting me

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    OH, SO NORMAL. It sounds like you and her have mutual feelings of lust and infatuation for each other. Chances are, she has thought about sex with you. After all, she is a girl, and if you are decent looking, she has noticed you sexually. Maybe you should hint around the topic - casually mentioning it in a conversation (using humor would be easiest) - to see what her views are.

    However, You have a girlfriend, so be a boyfriend to your girlfriend; and be a friend to her sister (maybe a friend-with-benefits). You could be the guy she has a lot of her "firsts" with (fingering, eating-out, blowjob, etc.), perhaps even losing her virginity to you. So, you have many things she can share with you as a friend (FWB), but be careful to not get her pregnant.

    That's just this kinky girl's opinion. If anything else, it's a great fantasy to masturbate to.

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  • Darkoil

    Shame she isn't 16, can you not wait till then to give into your lust.

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    • dytrog

      16 only aplies in a couple of states.
      Keep away from her and be her friend untik sjhe is 18. Your and her feelings may change by thyen. She may find her own boy friend by then.

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      • Remylebeau

        It's 16 here too and currently she has a bfoyfriend I just don't get why me

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    • Remylebeau

      I don't think that's the right way to go about this

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