Is it normal that i'm considering losing my virginity to a much older guy
Hi. Basically, I met this guy on a dating app an hour or so away from me. Right off the bat he asks if I want to hook up, of course I didn't say yes right away. We've talked for awhile, about this potential hook up. Later he revealed to me that he's 11 years older than me. I won't say how old I am, but I'm the exact age of consent in my state. I'm also a virgin, I know it's ethical to lose yor virginity to someone you love but that idea already blew out the window a long time ago. To him, this would be no big deal, just another hook up. But it's kind of a big deal to me. He is who he says he is, i find him attractive but not attractive enough to use as a fake profile. I've already reverse image searched his photos, they all trace back to his social media profiles. I don't know if I want it to be special because I've heard most first times aren't as special as the movies make it seem. A pro would be that I would be with an experienced person I suppose, He claims to not have any STI's, but there's always protection. I think I may be overthinking this. I honestly don't feel like going through with building another relationship with another naiive guy my age. I haven't fallen in love with this older guy or anything. He hasn't been manipulating me or leading me on, it's just been about sex.
Is it normal that I'm considering hooking up with him? Should I do it?
Thanks ❤️
(Comments would be greatly appreciated!)