Is it normal that i'm confused about my sexuality?

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I feel like I'm a straight guy, I like girls, think their hot etc. But i feel indifferent about it. Such as I stare at pics shirtless guys and look at their abs. I think thats because I want to find the abs that I want, but I dont know. My family has been giving me hints about my sexuality, like if my mom sees a gay guy on tv, she'll act like " guys just so you know, I love you just the way you are and I dont care if you were gay or anything." or she would say (since I'm a twin) "I heard one twin can be straight but the other can be gay." or something like that. I'm kind of nervous because I'm confused about if I'm Bi or something. Oh and one last thing, its not like I act "gay" or anything. Is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I am somewhat the same.

    Personally, I find guys far more physically attractive than women, but don't find men sexually attractive.

    I just think the male form has more design, more power, more elegance to it.

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  • lesscord
    10 years ago

    Is it normal that i want to feel some one's cock in my ass and cum it's such a pretty ass.

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    • fireavenger359
      10 years ago

      i guess, I've had a few fantasies about that myself

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  • pinkbug
    10 years ago

    I know 4 me (Im a female) I can enjoy looking at womens faces and bodies that are attractive w/o being sexual attracted to them or finding it attractive in a sexual way. Maybe this is what is going on with you looking at abs? If u have shared w/ur Mom (or is she has noticed)about looking at the abs she may have misinterpreted this as u being attracted 2 men. Hope this helps.

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  • helpmeimafreak123
    10 years ago

    It's human nature for us to stare at somebody attractive of either gender. And your mom just sounds like she needs to back off. There's a certain point where regardless of weather she squeezed you out of her nether regions or not you are going to lead your own life and do what you want regardless of your sexuality. If you are gay, so what? You like what you like and you are who you are. Just don't make a show of it.

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  • fireavenger359
    10 years ago

    thanks everyone :)

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  • GingaNinja
    10 years ago

    If you're mother seen you looking at these guys or found a picture or mag or something amongst your stuff she may have gotten the wrong idea talk to her it's the only way you're going to find out what she thinks!!!I know from my teacher in school giving us a lesson in sexuality that often people look at people of the same gender as competition and like to see what they're up against you may not even realise it but you may be comparing yourself to these guys!!!But if you are looking at these guys and feeling attracted then yes they're is a strong chance you may be bi but there's nothing bad about that it just makes you who you are!!!:)

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    If you're still quite young, it's normal to be confused about that. And even IF you are bisexual, that is perfectly fine.

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