Is it normal that i'm confused about my friend being bi?

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Okay, well I recently (as in a few hours ago) was told that my best friend in the world is bi. He didn't tell me first. I guess I'm a little upset about that, but that's not what this is about. See, I used to have a huge crush on him and he knew about it, but didn't feel the same way. I'm not allowed to tell anyone and I figured I'd tell the Internet because I'm freaking out. Is it okay that I want to ask him alot of questions? Is it okay that I'm kinda uncomfortable with it? Is what I'm feeling normal? Any advice? Please I'm just going crazy and need someone to tell me I'm not weird. Unless I am weird...HELP!!!

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  • canada87
    12 years ago

    It cool. I have a bi friend. Just go with the flow. Don't worry. Just don't make it awkward just fact he bi.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    This has happened too me too, it is really weird when yoo first find out but it gets a lot easier with time, don't get me wrong I love my gay/ bi friends I'm not homophobic at all but it just feels strange at the start (: im sure he would answer any questions yoo have for him though (: x

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  • Makayla22
    12 years ago

    well i dont get why ur freaking out, he's bi, which means he likes both guys and girls...DUH!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I dont understand why so many absurd HS questions or situations find there way to this website when its supposed to be for 18+, I mean I try to be a good troll, but this just makes it very difficult. Very difficult indeed.

    I stopped reading when it went from the best friends part to having a "huge crush".

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  • Ono
    12 years ago

    Fear of rejection is probably something he's been worried about, so I think he'd be happy if you asked him questions, it means you're still talking to him. If it feels right, I'd be honest with him and tell him why you're a little uncomfortable as well, you didn't state why it was, but he may be able to relieve that feeling somehow. The only thing I wouldn't recommend telling him is 'it's just a phase' or 'you're really gay but just won't say it'. Just accept him as he is on his word.

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