Is it normal that i'm attractive yet haven't had any real boyfriends?

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I'm very attractive and have many boys approach me while in the street. In school, on the other hand, I can never seem to get a relationship with anyone. Yes, I can hookup with people, but no one from school. And as for boyfriends, I dont see why I havent had any. There are MANY boys that like me, but to be honest they are just not for me and I refuse to just date anyone that passes in front of me. I feel even if I were to try and get one of them to ask me out though, I wouldnt be able to! Sometimes I wonder, do you think im just shy around guys?

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    It's kind of interesting that any type of self-confidence gets bashed by others on here.

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  • Glass
    12 years ago

    "and I refuse to date anyone that passes in front of me."
    I believe you've answered your own question. My advice is that you should start walking backwards.

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    • bunnygirl
      11 years ago

      That's very true. You don't have to make just anyone your boyfriend but maybe just go on a date if you are even interested. Give a guy a chance is my advice, that is what I do and it has been lots of fun!

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    I dislike how assholes on this post are trying to ruin your confidence. Don't worry, they're just jealous, that they don't have confidence.

    I say, one day you'll find "Mr. Right!"
    I'm sure you are still young.

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  • Lynxikat
    12 years ago

    Interesting how almost every post here thinks that this girl is stuck up because she says she's attractive :/

    You just haven't found the right guy yet. It's normal.

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  • dods22
    12 years ago

    Sometimes its just not about attraction, you could be the prettiest girl in the world, but if you have a bad attitude no one will approach you. Which I'm.not assuming that you do have. You have to look besides yourself and figure out who you are because its never good to just be a pretty face. You need to have more to offer than just your face or your body. for right now every guy wants to sleep the girl with the best face or the best body, but in the long run they're going to want more than that especially if you plan on tying them down because commitment is a hard thing

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  • sick_freak
    12 years ago

    don't lie. u be ugly

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe you think too highly of yourself? Or you just have no personality :p. I am kidding, just keep your chin up and keep looking :)

    Good luck

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  • KushSex
    12 years ago

    Maybe you have a bad personality! Lol just kidding but its completely normal, you just haven't found the right one

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  • RavagedSoul
    12 years ago

    Well the way you say it.. Perhaps there was something you did in school which makes it as such. An in school there are many rumors which keep flying around. Could be a few negative ones about you. If guys do approach you in the street then it is most probably that you are attractive but err... Observe the guys who come up to you. Their personality could be a hint about yours/your dressing style.

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  • bryson_willis
    12 years ago

    there's a surge of girls in IIN proclaiming they are hot and that everyone is looking at them.

    I hope this isn't the same OP making multiple posts.

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    • sure_thing
      12 years ago

      Agreed

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  • ohheytherefog
    12 years ago

    Only an ugly person would call themselves attractive

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Perhaps you're not as attractive as you think you are? Or maybe people in school know you, don't like you, and that is why?

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  • Malaglinir
    12 years ago

    You sound arrogant, but that's okay. Some guys like girls who actually have confidence. I don't think I've ever met another guy who actually finds it attractive when a girl says they are ugly (when they are clearly not).

    However, it sounds like your problem lies in your standards. The line "I refuse to just date anyone that passes in front of me" makes it sounds like you only date guys who are 'perfect'.

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago

    No, your just a fat ugly bitch who think she's "attractive."

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    • Zebras.are.zee.SHIZ.
      12 years ago

      How can you call me a bitch if you have know idea who I am, my life story, or how I even look? Maybe you should be happy that everyone in this world isnt walking around jealous of every girl and bashing themselves all depressed because they feel inadequate when compared to others? Maybe it would be better if instead of the world having to console all those girls who want to kill themselves because they don't feel "pretty" in society's eyes, the world could just be happy with how they look and feel good about themselves and their accomplishments. Because obviously you don't and have to bash anyone who feels good with themselves.

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      • chicken471bologna
        12 years ago

        Calm down bitch!

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        • bunnygirl
          11 years ago

          You are an extremely rude and diluted person to call a young girl that! Confidence is the key to any form of success and you shouldn't put it down just because you don't have any

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  • Member3285
    12 years ago

    Clearly the issue is that you are stuck up. Anyone who so boldly proclaims that they're attractive doesn't have a proper sense of self-deprecation. You need to start being more humble and you will get guys... if you really are this much of a stuck up bitch, the only guys you will ever attract will end up making you miserable.

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  • ohplease
    11 years ago

    1- Maybe you are not quite the catch you think you are
    2- Maybe you seem too desperate
    3- Maybe your expectations are not commensurate with what you have to offer
    4- Maybe you're in high school and dealing with all the drama and stupid shit inherent in high school male-female relationships

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  • ready2rumble
    12 years ago

    God! You are picky! And I agree with most of the people here, be more humble, look somewhere else other than school

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  • different92
    12 years ago

    I think what you are is picky.
    I am like that, its weird if a guy doesn't hit on me per day but i won't date just any guy.
    And maybe the guys at your school feel inferior.
    xoxo

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  • one_who_wonders
    12 years ago

    first of all, you should tune it down a couple of tones.
    this "I'm very attractive" attitude is a major turn off even for the hottest girls, second, even if you are a decent looking girl, there is more than that to being attractive, its what you project that makes the call.
    for example, when you go around acting like youre miss universe, people think "spoiled bitch", no offense, and if you find all the boys are not for you, you become this frigid girl.
    my advice to you is be more modest and down to earth.

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