Is it normal that i'm attracted to my father-in-law?

I've been married for 5 years now and are marriage will be over very soon. We've had sex like 3 times in a year... And I have a great body... Pretty face

However, I'm in Ft. Meyers vacationing with my husband and my in-laws right now.

My father-in-law is such a sweet funny loving man and gets angry at how my husband treats me... He's in excellent shape for his mid 50's very muscular but he's older I see that.

I find him so attractive... I think... What can I do to get his attention? Should I try?

His wife is very heavy not at all like him... My husband is never home... I'm dying to somehow get his attention... Any advice on what I can do to get his attention

I really trying to make a connection with him...

Should I be attracted to my father in law? What should I do to get his attention?

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Based on 72 votes (35 yes)
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Comments ( 19 )
  • Ellenna

    The attraction is normal, given that you're in a sexually dead marraige, but acting on that attraction would be really stupid.

    You sound very immature if you judge other people's sex life on how "heavy" the woman is.

    Get out of that marriage ASAP if that's what you want and find a sexual partner outside your husband's family.

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    • Kellie

      Thank you

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  • sillygirl77

    In what universe is this okay? It's not up to you to judge that your in laws marriage is no good and that you should try to ruin it!

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    • Kellie

      I never said that, my question was is it normal to have urges feelings for him?

      When somebody is close to you and is nice to you (and you are in a bad marriage) it's hard not to enjoy that person.

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      • sillygirl77

        You also ask "what should I do to get his attention?" which means you're thinking about ways to ruin his marriage.

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  • nobodyspecial

    It's not a good thing to screw your husbands dad, but if it's something you really feel you need to do, let him catch you masturbating

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    • Kellie

      Really? Wow! All I wanted to know was if it was normal to have these urges.

      I highly doubt I'll be screwing him

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  • Kellie

    FYI my husband cheats on me... But I'm leaving him when I graduate with my Masters Degree

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    • jeannie1993

      i think you are absolutely doing the right thing, nobody deserves to be cheated on, i hope you find somebody that will make you happy, good luck.

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      • Kellie

        Thank you Jeannie...

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  • Asssmelllover

    I believe that in sex nothing is wrong and there is no logic. Sex and love are two different things. There are so many sexual desire which a single person may not fulfil as per your wish. Sex is very important and we should not miss our desires. If your husband can not give you what you want in bed or if you want a different taste just go on. Seduce him and allow him to lick u .

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    • Kellie

      That's what my father in law say all the time.... He's says love and sex are two different things.

      He says just because people no longer have sex doesn't mean they don't love them.

      Sex is lower down his priority list

      Thank you

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  • commodoredawe

    It is perfectly normal to have such urges. I had and still have them and whenever I can I give in to them and my husband encourages me to enjoy myself and contribute to the happines of the entire family.

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  • pawant

    U contect me on my no 7837257379
    I tell u how to rady your father in law to love u

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  • 93pd

    If he treats u good, u treat him good

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  • maaximum

    Walk up to him drop to knees and suck him

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  • Stephen.the.slayer

    That sucks your husband is such a scumbag and ignores you AND cheats on you. I think it's normal he is not blood related so. But, here is what you want to do. Don't act on it! You know that angry hurt feeling you feel when your old man is not home and you know he is banging some girl? That is what you would be doing to his wife.

    Now, this is what to do! First, find you an attractive MAN and make sure he is the bad boy type since some of us will know how to take care of what your soul and body has been craving for over a year. Second, when you do get alone with him be upfront and just tell him that your down right now and need a guy to make you feel desired and sexy.

    Here's the key. Tell him you want him to take control and dominate you COMPLETELY during sex. Not just hair pulling and spanking. Rather someone who is going to literally rip your panties in two and screw the soul out of you for hours. Someone who is going to give you tons of super intense oral while they are stimulating as well with fingers. Beg for him to pull your hair, spank you, slap your butt, slap your ****, if he has done this before then plead for him to choke you. Don't be scared, he is not choking and hurting you but pressing down gently on your coratid artery cutting off the some people not all of the blood flowing from your brain to your neck right as you are really close to orgasm. The intensity of your orgasms are going to be off the chart.

    Have him put his fingers in your mouth when he wants and to blind fold you during sex too. Just as important have him talk to you constantly during the entire body/soul feeding marathon sessions. Have him tell you how he is going to do you as he whispers it in your ear. Your going to be sore the next couple of days....but it will still feel so worth it. Tell him you body belongs to him for the night.

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  • jeannie1993

    if he's happy with his wife then forget about it, but if he's miserable with her just let him know that you have feelings for him, if she's let herself go and he no longer finds her attractive then i've got no sympathy for her at all, especially if he goes to the trouble of keeping himself in shape, don't have an affair with him as that would be wrong, but i would let him know that he has another option if he does ever leave her.

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    • Kellie

      Thank you for your advice. I just wanted to know if it was normal to have urges for him.

      I would never break up his marriage they are happy but they no longer have sex (like us).

      He's told us numerous times it bothers him a lot about his wife being over weight and what can he do to help her lose weight.

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