Is it normal that i'm attracted to a guy and a girl?

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Ok, just to clarify, I am a girl...
I have been strongly attracted to my best friend (a girl) for about three years now. I've been so afraid to tell her that I'm stuck. I would do anything for her, but I just can't tell her how I feel because it might ruin our friendship.
Recently another friend (a guy) has been acting like he's attracted to me. While I'm not romantically attracted to him, and he's not the most attractive looking person, I can't help but like him a little too. I could actually have a relationship with him, one that wouldn't cause difficulties like a same-sex relationship would. But I love her more than I do him. I'm just stuck.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    u love her as a friend leave it at that and take him

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    From the sounds of it you do not like this guy. You feel pressured since he likes you. So you feel obligated to like him and that is not a reason to date someone. You should not date out of obligation. You sound to like your friend and are ashamed of it. It really does not sound like you like the boy though.

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  • Judas_misunderstood
    13 years ago

    There is nothing normal about sexuality, just as there is nothing abnormal about it.

    Everyone is different.

    So, like what you like, as often as yo like, and be happy :)

    Respect the rights of other people to have their own opinions, but don't feel compelled to agree with them. If someone doesn't like your attraction to women, leave them to their prejudice in private. Life is too short to worry about what other people think of you. And you will find that:

    EVERY
    SINGLE
    GUY
    THINKS
    IT'S
    HOT.

    Simple as that. You can have them both, if they're both interested in you. Lucky, lucky girl.

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    • Judas_misunderstood
      13 years ago

      Practical steps to take:

      - Get her to kiss you. Drunk is best. Some BS challenge, truth or dare, whatever. Some pretext for girl-girl kissing will get you there, and you will see whether she is into it or just tolerating it. Be prepared for her to be straight, and not al all into it.

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  • loserville
    13 years ago

    Oh my god. Same thing here my best friend is sexxiii as hell and i'd honest to god woukd diw for her. I'm pretty sure she knows I'm bi but I dsay no. I would never never tell her though. I think about her 24/7. But the sucky thing is we jusy recently fist fought over her takin my car for a guy:(( for every star I see I wish for her to fall in love w me, for every red bird, and every prayer. Choose the dude and stay bf w her. In time ur feelings will disapear

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  • Msbecky
    13 years ago

    Well yes it is normal you my dear are Bi sexual like many of us women i understand why it could be hard to tell her cause you dont want to lose a friend i suggest you bring a conversation about lesbians and bisexuals and stuff and then see where it goes and ask her something like what does she think about them if shes ok with it you should be able to later on come out and tell her what you need to .

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