Is it normal that i'm attached to my boyfriend?

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Hi. I've been in a relationship with an amazing person for about 8 months now, and I'm beginning to think I'm overly attached. This is my first relationship, I'm not the type to get noticed or sought after. I'm not very pretty or great, but this guy seems to think I'm perfect. He's the only guy thats ever liked me this much, and I feel the same way, I love him. I don't usually post or talk about this kind of stuff either, but anyhow.. Because he's the only person that's romantically loved me back, I feel like I've treasured him. I've been wondering if perhaps I've mistaken an obsession or an attachment for cherisment. I send really long paragraphs to him about how I feel, and I get so anxious when he doesn't reply. It usually happens when I'm not with him. If he tells me he can't speak to me via texting because he's running out of data or something, it doesn't bother me. But leaving my message unread for hours on end makes me pretty worried. It's gotten to the point where I'm crying, he hasn't even read my message for an entire day and I've cried because I'm just worried about him, I don't know... It's not like he doesn't care about me or anything.
He really loves me, he isn't the fastest texter and he is having some issues at home. I don't worry whether he's cheating or with another female, I worry more about his safety. Is this normal?

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  • jethro
    7 years ago

    Why do you text him? I would think that you would like the sound of his voice. Are you texting him every 10 minutes? That would be a buzz kill for me. Stop texting and call him.

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  • idontcaree
    7 years ago

    Attached physically? Are you conjoined twins.

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    • xfg34
      7 years ago

      vag & cock

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    • Kookookazoo
      7 years ago

      Duh XD

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    You're going to lose him if you don't do something about your obsessive behavior. Have a think about how you'd feel if he were carrying on like this towards you .... boring, scary, suffocating isn't it?

    This is NOT love by the way, it's obsession and very unhealthy. He has a life apart from you and you need to get one apart from him and fast or he'll be gone and who could blame him?

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    • xfg34
      7 years ago

      Don't listen to the cynicism... sounds like he is a lucky guy to have such a devoted girlfriend.

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    • Kookookazoo
      7 years ago

      I didn't go very far depth into detail considering this site is pretty new to me and it seems kinda risky xD The long paragraphs aren't frequent, I don't constantly text him asking where he's at or anything. Whenever he just disappears I don't automatically assume the worst, what I wrote was out of impulsiveness and anxiety. And if he was the same way towards me, it wouldn't be very noticeable. And I don't get the 'boring' part, I guess it was my fault for lack of detail I guess lol

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  • FlameDragoon
    7 years ago

    Nothing to be ashamed about. I'm in a 6 year relationship and sometimes I still go crazy when she hasn't seen my messages for hours.

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  • pantychaffe
    7 years ago

    Chill. Life happens. If this nigga said he like you, you good bread ma, chill.

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  • rltg4711
    7 years ago

    So then, here is the problem as I see it.
    "Enter the brave new world" and into such a world are inhabitants just like yourself. Short on real words and total indepth conversation and the use of the real Kings's English as it was meant to be. Now it is txt .... instead of using the real world 'texting' so you may understand what I mean and everything you now do, because all others your age do the exact same, have no idea how to open up the heart and sole and have a real conversation without asking someone how to do it. The further we progress, the further we lose what use to be and that is .... reality. Gone aare the days of real words, spelt out in gramatical correctness and with purpose.
    Sad I know yet that is how I see it and I would not want to be a young person, growing up in today's environment. Throw your phone away and begin to talk real talk, face to face.

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  • SUCKMYPECKER
    7 years ago

    How old are you both ?
    Have you ever seen his naked cock and nuts yet ?

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