Is it normal that i'm ashamed of being straight?

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Okay, long story short. I'm a 25 year old straight female. I have been wanting to be lesbian since I was about 12. I've succeeded at best at being bisexual, but that began to fall apart... Slowly but surely I was straight again. Haven't totally given up being gay just yet though. I feel that love/sex between two women would be better, more romantic and pure. It would be delightful to be able to fully reject men. And if I was lesbian and asexual at the same time, that would be perfection. My absurd virgin's sex drive doesn't allow me to be either. :( Is this... normal in any way? Anyone out there who feels this way too?

PS: Yes, I was raised Catholic and yes, my douchebag daddy left me.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    This isn't normal.

    Your attitude towards sexual orientation, men and love is skewed.

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  • college
    9 years ago

    Being gay isn't something that you have to work toward, it should be who you are. Don't overthink your sexuality, just let it be what it is.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Just be glad that you were born lucky enough to be the socially deemed acceptable orientation of heterosexuality. Because of this, you'll probably never have to face the amount of stigma us people who belong in the alternative orientation have to face.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You should probably see a therapist for your issues with males.

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  • Cucco
    9 years ago

    No, it's not normal. If you're straight, you're straight, if you're gay, you're gay. There's no changing it and you shouldn't force yourself to be someone you're not or feel ashamed. Lesbian love isn't somehow "purer" than straight love, it's all the same. Maybe you need to lay off the yuri for a bit.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Seems like your reasons for this is your sexist attitude towards men...Just my assumption.

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  • Crμsades
    9 years ago

    Nice sarcasm, Op.

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