Is it normal that i'm already 20 and i've never had a boyfriend?

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Yeah, I know, pathetic. My first and pretty much only kiss was at 18ish at a club. Still a virgin.

Most of the guys I know are from my classes - and since I go to a prestigious university and studying economics, almost all are from some Asian country and I just can't seem to be attracted to them no matter what, even though they're only academically focused anyway.

Physically, I think I'm pretty average - 5'5", very athletic, super approachable, friendly and confident.

I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong though. Why can't I get a guy? Do guys get turned off by a virgin who's this old?

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    There should be a folder or a category for this question. And inside that, another folder for all the questions about being 20 and still a virgin.

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  • Dulse.
    12 years ago

    I think it's pretty normal and I don't think being a virgin would turn off many guys. There are guys your age out there that are asking a similar question to this i'd imagine.

    I think some one will come along the way, keep yourself open to the possibilities. And you're not pathetic :)

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    I'm 19 still a virgin and haven't even so much as had a proper kiss before. Your not alone just look at all the iin stories.

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  • TightRedShirtPurpleSkinnyJeans
    12 years ago

    If you've got such a goodbody and are nice then maybe they're just scared.

    People don't jsut randomly ask someone to go out with them or on a date... well I did once, complete disaster :P.
    It turns out you have to lay some groundwork first. Don't go looking for anything, just if you come across someone you find interesting keep talking to them and if that works out then organise to meet up with them and a few friends, keep it an open social environment where you can both escape from one another if need be.

    Then just sortof progress from there, send the 'Hey want to hang out thisafternoon text?'. I'm sure you can work out the rest.

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