Is it normal that i'm almost 20 years old, but i have no friends?
I'm gonna be 20 years old in ten days and i have 0 friends.I haven't even had another guy to hangout with since i was 17.
If you put me in any kind of social environment i usually find it easy to make acquaintances. For example when i was in school i always had a pretty solid group of friends. If i go to a party or something i'll find it easy to just join a group or whatever. And usually when i go to parties i'm pretty well received by the other guests.
But i don't have any serious friendships and i never have. I moved around a lot so i lost contact with most of my elementary/middle/high school friends. And now that i'm older people never just invite me to join their group and i don't know how to make friends without coming across as a weirdo. I can't say "you look cool, gimme your number we'll be buds" like thats weird lol.
Is it normal to be like this? I'm gonna spend my birthday all alone (no real family). I'm not upset about it or anything. I don't even feel all that lonely. Sometimes i wish i had a group of friends. Mostly when i see tv shows with close friends and i wish i could have that relationship but i don't really lose sleep over it.