Is it normal that i'm almost 20 years old, but i have no friends?

I'm gonna be 20 years old in ten days and i have 0 friends.I haven't even had another guy to hangout with since i was 17.

If you put me in any kind of social environment i usually find it easy to make acquaintances. For example when i was in school i always had a pretty solid group of friends. If i go to a party or something i'll find it easy to just join a group or whatever. And usually when i go to parties i'm pretty well received by the other guests.

But i don't have any serious friendships and i never have. I moved around a lot so i lost contact with most of my elementary/middle/high school friends. And now that i'm older people never just invite me to join their group and i don't know how to make friends without coming across as a weirdo. I can't say "you look cool, gimme your number we'll be buds" like thats weird lol.

Is it normal to be like this? I'm gonna spend my birthday all alone (no real family). I'm not upset about it or anything. I don't even feel all that lonely. Sometimes i wish i had a group of friends. Mostly when i see tv shows with close friends and i wish i could have that relationship but i don't really lose sleep over it.

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Based on 33 votes (24 yes)
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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I have been in similar circumstances being that I've moved around so much.

    I know a few people in this situation. Seems normal enough to me.

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  • PandaChan

    Girl, 20 still young .. you still have chance , if you really wanna have friends , make it.. it's all starts with you

    but you r normal , desu

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  • RoseIsabella

    Twenty is awfully young to already have no real family.

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    • despuit

      Some are born without any true family. Some things you can't change and are meant to be.

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  • Riddler

    I am 21 and I dont have any. The ones I do see required sexual favors to hang out with them and since I am abstinent it just irritates me greatly. I had a job at one point but the first job they fired me in under a week, and the second job despite being there a couple of months the people working there said I was wierd and should find my own friends. So I started taking training online and this place did not help place you at a job just gave you training. I still cant find a job in that field and I kind of at a loss what to do now other than get more certifications. I am very certified to be a security guard at least on papers I am but Oh well.

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