Is it normal that i'm afraid to have sex?

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So over the years i've been really interested in sex. I constantly watch porn and wish I was getting nailed like those girls, But when the opportunity actually arises I am totally freaked out!! Its not that I fear I'll get pregnant or I'll catch a disease, or that it will hurt. I've already had sex a few times but it still freaks me out. I think the main thing that bothers me the most about it is showing that I'm being pleasured... I feel So embarassed if it's obvious that something is making me feel really good. What the heck this can't be normal!!!!

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Based on 84 votes (53 yes)
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  • treyrafa
    13 years ago

    It means youre just not emotionally ready for a sexual relationship .

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  • Twit
    12 years ago

    I am the same way hahaha sooo not comfortable.

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  • help_is_here
    13 years ago

    Whats really funny is, this story is 69% normal lol

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    I'm the exact opposite and I'm a girl. I love showing the guy how much I like it cause it turns them on.

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    • chennaistud
      13 years ago

      if u realy horny, watc porn done

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  • Wowking
    13 years ago

    Oh thank god, I'm so happy other people feel this way. It really does suck though :(

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    It actually is normal I feel exactly I mean exactly the same way.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    If u have sex with someone u really like and are close too it shouldn't matter if u show u enjoy it. It will make it better for the other person too! Don't have sex with someone that means nothing to u or u will feel self conscience and shy

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  • arzer
    13 years ago

    i'm also afraid of sex, and I know how you feel, beacuse its for the exact same reasons. im so glad to know im not the only one. i'm not sure if its really "normal," but it has become part of my reality, and i wish there was something i could do about it, mainly because i know how much it upsets my boyfriend

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i would be scared of that too :$

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  • Samy_filter
    13 years ago

    of course yes!!
    i had three girls and three of them didnt liked it!!

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  • peanutgizmo
    13 years ago

    im the same-i wont have sex unless its dark and he cant see me! like you say, its embarrassng!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ...Gay

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