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I'm 18, and the farthest I've gone is getting eaten out. I'm afraid to have sex, I'm not sure why, it just kind of freaks me out. I don't think I'm ready for it. Is it normal?
There will be a time when you feel you are ready. Obviously, you are not at that point. It will be natural when you are ready. My wife and I waited till we were married but I know that everyone....most don't do that. It will come natural. Don't do something that you can look back on and regret.
If you afraid of sex , don't have sex ^^
Wait until you think you are ready for it
Then don't.
Nobody is forcing you to have intercourse, are they?
Just wait until your ready and comfortable enough to do it,
but don't expect it to be mind blowing, the first time is usually a bit uncomfortable, and even the second and third time.
It's one of those things that
take practice to make it perfect.
Just be sure to be safe and use protection and lubricant.
It could be that you're not ready yet, altough I'd say 18 is a bit old to not be ready. Most people are ready before that, but appearantly you're late. That's possible of course, but I think you're wasting the best years of your life by not having sex.
About the sex itself, there's nothing to be afraid of. Sex is wonderful, I love it! First time I did it I was 13 and ever since then I'm addicted. I just can't imagine anyone who does not want sex.
Sucking cocks is good for you. If you are smart enough to swallow you get a protein shake out of the deal.
I believe that it is normal, after all everyone is different! Right?
For the time being, you should watch some porn and get more experienced! Then when the time comes you know exactly what you're doing. But be aware, porn can be addicting for a reason I have no fricken clue! But anywho, if you are eating someone and getting your face all up in there I don't understand how putting your dick up there to experience your own pleasure makes any sense?
Don't force it. Just do it when you are ready and don't care about people telling you nonsense because you haven't do it yet. Sex is not an obligation. Is to give and get pleasure otherwise is not nice.
The answer is that you will know when you are ready.
Don't ever give into a guy's demands. If he keeps pressuring you, tell him to go to hell.
If he gives you oral sex, and you enjoy it but aren't ready for more and he is willing to take it base by base, then you might have a good guy. Return the favor and give him oral sex. In time, it might go further and you will find out how enjoyable it really is.
Do you like receiving oral sex? Does it feel good? Have you had an orgasm? If these experiences you are having are positive, then keep going until it feels right to have sex.
And absolutely don't unless you and your guy are responsible enough to use protection every time. Don't be pressured into the pill. Use a condom. Every time.
Protected sex is the only way to have sex these days.
If you are afraid of sex now, you will really be afraid of having a baby!