Is it normal that i'm afraid to date an attractive guy?

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I'm Afraid that if a guy is attractive, he might think that he's too good for me or something and Cheat or be an asshole. I've only been with guys that are way less attractive than me. They have been Sweet, faithful and well.. Nice. But I wanted to try dating one that was good looking for once but for some reason I'm convinced they will be stupid, jerks, cheaters ect. I have good looking cousins/friends and they all act this way! I had been flirted with by this Nice, sweet, guy who was hot, only to find out he had a girlfriend! I sound like a horrible person for saying this, I know! but still the steriotype of cute guys remain in my head... What do you guys think? <:/ Ps. Personality Is my favorite thing on a guy, but a cute face might be something interesting to attach to it, ya know?

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  • FearFigment
    12 years ago | pl

    Afraid, Cheat, Sweet, Nice, Personality, Is; these were all incorrectly punctuated. The errors are so obvious, it looks suspicious... OH GOD IT'S A HIDDEN MESSAGE.
    Taking the first letters of each of these clue words, we are left with the letters : A C S N P I.

    Running the letters through a decoder... the letters spell... 'PANICS'
    AY DIOS MIO.
    PANICS is an acronym for 'People Acting Normal In Crazy-ass Situations', which was a television series released in 2005 consisting of 5 episodes.

    I'm assuming that due to the lack of a private messaging system, you have encrypted your story with codes in order to communicate privately among your comrades.
    The message thus translates to a judgement of the IIN community; you are saying that they are all people, who act normal, yet they are in less-that-normal situations.
    How dare you pass gossip right under our noses you cancer.

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    I'm so high right now

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    • FearFigment
      12 years ago

      But seriously you need to conquer that fear.
      Remember that there are just as many unattractive jerks as there are attractive ones; i.e. looks and personality are mutually exclusive

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    • Gretchyn
      12 years ago

      LMFAO WTF???

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    • CharacterTraits
      12 years ago

      Hahahhsahahahahaha!!!! That is freaking awesome!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      ... wHa? lmaO i found that strangly aWesome :D I'm not Doing anytHing suspicious, i simply Enjoy pressing the shiFt button, Stop beINg so paranoiD. The world Isn't OUT to get you.. >:D

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  • peter1984
    12 years ago

    Hey stop this! I'm handsome and I take the time to take care of my looks, but I'm not a player! I'm actually the saddest most patheitc loser on the face of the planet. I'm very shy myself yet sometimes i'm sure girls think way too much of me, they are too shy to flirt with me while I'm too shy to approach them, so much wasted fun :(
    I learned one lesson the hard way though: a girl liked me (i could tell), i liked her too, but she probably thought that i was out of here league whatever that means, so i started giving her hints of how much of a loser i am, didn't work out, she ended up dating someone else, never again will i lay down my arms first :P

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  • Spin
    12 years ago

    I have the same feelings as you. I only look at more attractive guys from afar, I can never really imagine dating one.

    However, I think the key here is the guys who actually put some sort of effort into their looks compared to the ones that don't. I often find myself attracted to guys who, altho plain, actually have a face I find very cute to me. Ones that are more stylish and etc. unfortunately are often player-like or jerks. But I guess that makes sense, because otherwise why would they make themselves look more attractive other than to attract more girls?

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  • thebuddah
    12 years ago

    Lmao @fearfigment omg that made my day

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Get to know him before you date him.

    There's no reason you have to go from 0 to dating instantly.

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  • melissaann
    12 years ago

    it's normal but mainly because it's new & sounds like you don't wan to get hurt but it's better to have love and lost than not at all

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    This is normal, but attractive, nice guys do exist. Guys tend to be dicks when other guys are around, look for mature, professional men who have lessened their 'late nights, games and beer-pong' intake.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Omg I'm the same way =/ like a lot of cute people flirt with me and stuff but I'm scared that they will think too much of themselves and not care about me after a while. It's just an insecurity.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    It's normal and understandable. But you can't go on believing that all guys with great looks are gonna be assholes. And it's cool that you notice the personality above everything else. At least you see whats on the inside before paying attention to the outside.

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  • SMILEifyourstupid
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal, and unfortunately, I've found the same thing, cute guys tend to be assholes :(

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    • chewy
      12 years ago

      im not not every cute or hot guy shit now i sound gay by saying hot guy what im trying to say that not every guy that women find cute or hot is an asshole its not always the case depends on the guy

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    we are assholes but you will say yes when we come around

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