Is it normal that i'm a virgin ?

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I know here are similar stories to mine.. but I feel like I need to have some answers of my own..
I am 22 will be 23 this coming summer and I'm still a virgin.. recently I have met a guy.. but our relationship started out very passionately and despite the fact that he know I'm a virgin he is persisting that I would feel better if I just did it..
before I didn't think I have any problems with having sex without marriage or anything like that.. but as all is progressing I'm getting a bit insecure about the whole having sex idea, because I don't have a lot of experience and before this the most I have done is some light petting, passionate making out .. ok when I'm alone sometimes I watch porn or touch myself.. (sorry if it's too much details it's just I feel like I can be anonymous here) ..

So my questions are:

Is it normal to be a virgin(female) at the age of 22?

How do I explain it to a guy so I don't feel awkward or don't make him feel like I don't want him?

How could I prepare myself if I do decide to loose it, but I'm not sure what to do most of the times, despite the fact that it doesn't look like that?

P.s. I think some of my insecurities are based from some stupid teacher who thought my class biology and SexEd and told the whole class that she thinks, that I am one of the first girl in school that has lost virginity because I'm very social and love to talk a lot( I was about 14 at that time)...

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  • t135
    12 years ago

    Its normal baby....i was a virgin at 27yrs and i am guy...its okay to be a late bloomer so long you take your time to know yourself, rather than what you hear

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  • inkdrama
    12 years ago

    If you aren't married, then it's expected.

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  • spidercrowblaze18762
    11 years ago

    Ur normal! Evrything is fine with u baby, but just look after it that now its ur age of getting a dick inside ur pussy, spread ur pussy wide and let him lick it, and then put his thing into it! U will really enjoy tht cum of his either inside ur asshole or ur cunt, so just do it baby!

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  • litnas
    12 years ago

    i am 26 year old men and still virgin, it is not an issue. don't feel a rush to have sex, i don't.

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  • TightRedShirtPurpleSkinnyJeans
    12 years ago

    First of all you need some confidence in the field. You do not need to treat this conversation topic as though it's taboo. You can talk about your inexperience to a partner, that's what you have them for!

    Why not just when you are getting to know a guy tell him that you are a devout <Insert religion here>

    He should understand if he has some religious background. If he doesn't then prepare for a hell of a lot of pressure to do it unless you find a very nice guy.

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  • GreenMonke140
    12 years ago

    Just go to Europe and fuck some random dude there.
    Then you don't have to think about it anymore. :D

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  • Scarecr0w
    12 years ago

    To answer your original question, it isn't very common to still be a virgin at your age, no. But that's not necessarily a bad thing, and it doesn't really reflect upon you at all. This is just my personal opinion, of course, but if you aren't even comfortable enough to just talk about sex with your boyfriend, you definitely aren't comfortable enough to have sex with him.

    You should look into professional therapy to talk out some of your issues. It's NOT just for crazy people.

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  • ColePhelps
    12 years ago

    im a virgin mate as long as you're not

    * coming on this site too vent because you have no one to talk too

    * get pissed of whenever you see couples together

    * feel the urge to hurt maybe even kill someone so they can feel you're pain

    * depressed drug addict who hates women

    if you're none of these thing above you're fine trust me bro get some pussy soon you don't want to be like me im 20 and ready to die

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    • lisac1919
      12 years ago

      i dont think pussy is going to cure that ^^^^

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      you alright there bro?

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