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So I'm a pre-med student, female, I "want" to be a doctor, but really my dream is to marry rich and never actually have to work. Is this normal, or am I terrible?
The whole point of feminism is that women aren't subservient to men, that men don't have all the money and power, and that women can make their own way in the world rather than have to rely on a man to look after them.
I think many of the women who have given their lives (Emily Davidson, for example) would weep copiously at what you've just written.
is it against feminism for a man to want to be a housewife? it's not about finding a rich girl to spoil me, i just prefer working in the house and garden and taking care of people, and would like to find a girl who would handle most of the business stuff and let me take care of everything else.
I'm a guy working on my phD in mechanical engineering and I come across several other female graduate students who say the same thing. I don't understand it at all. Why even go to school or do anything to better yourself if this is what you really want. NO you are NOT normal at all. You are just looking for the easy way out because for some reason you got it in your head that since you got a vagina you deserve everything to be handed to you without effort. Let me give you some advice quit school and go meditate and prepare your mind to accept being nothing more than a sex slave and then go to the gym and get your body tight because those are the only women rich men go for. You will be good until you turn 30 at which point you will be replaced with a younger gold digger. I mean younger pre med student.
I know you guys are going to start bashing me but any woman or adult for that matter who says some shit like that should be ashamed of themselves.
i wish i marry rich and never have to work too, but i will never do it if i'm not in love too ;)
I think lots of women go to college for this reason. it's annoying and a waste of resources. they probably cheat off nerds and bang lots of frat boys who spend their dad's money on hummers. the sex act and the SUV. i bet if you get knocked up he might marry you. you guys do thwart the efforts of the feminist movement. and when your looking for this rich man you might pass on someone really special.
@thedarkside lmao! ur funny and so right. I didn't know a med student would be looking for a rich man? perfect cover up!! lol I think woman also men dream of this meal ticket cuz they don't wanna grow up.... girl just cuz it looks nice doesn't mean it is. you'll prob get board and want to return to work. are u feeling overwhelmed? Everyone needs something to do in life to define themselves. maybe ur not in the right field and afraid of that?? find something u love to do and u won't mind working. :)
you do realise that most rich guys actually make their wives sign prenups and as soon as he finds out that you are only using him for his money, he is going to throw you on your ass out in the street. yeah that sounds like a great plan.
You should work because you never know if your going to get married to some rich guy
I think it's normal to want to never have to work and live the life of luxury. It's good that you're still going to school because the chances of you being able to live comfortably without ever having to work are very slim so you will need a way to make it on your own.
^^ To the feminist, go burn your bra, then get back in the kitchen. Anyways keep going to school, and if you meet a rich guy, great, but never quit your job to have him support you because you never know what the future holds.