Is it normal that i'm a girl and i'm uncomfortable with my breasts?

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I've never worn a bra and am constanly wearing 2-3 layers and I use my long hair to hide my boobs. I've always heard girls want big boobs and wear low cut shirts and you can see them. It doesn't bother me but I don't ever see myself being able to be comfortable with them. I just don't think anybody should be able to see anything and I don't want anybody seeing mine. IIN?

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Based on 122 votes (79 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why? Breasts are like the most beautiful thing on this planet.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe you are transgendered

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  • Monkey2770
    7 years ago

    I know it's super late, but there are still people visiting this page, so I'm gonna comment. All the advice in this column sucks. Everybody keeps saying "you'll love them later on" and "love yourself" and "why don't you like them?" But I understand. I've personally struggled with this for a while. It's alright to be uncomfortable with yourself. Especially at a young age. There isn't a whole lot you can do, unfortunately. But I feel as though people who have struggled with this are misrepresented. I am perfectly alright being a female, but I have been really uncomfortable as I've grown older. That's all.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    why would you cover something so wonderful?

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  • Seedlings!
    11 years ago

    I'm a guy and I'm uncomfortable with the fact that I have breasts too. It scares me. especially when my girlfriend wants to play with them.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    I used to not want my breats to be there, but low and behold, there here anyways. It's okay if you don't want to show them off :) I love unique girls (I'm a Straight girl, no worries) I think your idividuality is great! You hide them titties ;) And maybe save'm for the right man

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  • stickfigurebighead
    12 years ago

    Eh, a lot of women hate their boobs. Just try to love yourself. I hated mine for so long. Finally, I just stopped giving a shit. The second that happened, my life got better. And my boobs are happier too.

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  • OhmyGod!
    12 years ago

    U r so right. Change company of girls. U should not agree with such illusions to ur any part of body said by anybody. U r great, so u hide ur boobs. They r cheap so those girl think like that. U so nice by heart.

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  • KatieLiz
    12 years ago

    I think this depends how old you are, if you're about 14/15 it's completely normal

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I love you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      why?

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        You are a modest girl. Modesty turns me on.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Just learn to be comfortable in your body.

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    • Skipper3456
      12 years ago

      and how would i do that? ive been uncomfortable all my life.

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      • FocoUS
        12 years ago

        Maybe you're unfamiliar with your body. You could get an anatomy book and learn about yourself and see how you're no different from another girl.

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  • mcnasty
    12 years ago

    Idk maybe, I don't think anyone should have to hide anything about there self be there looks or how they act, or be uncomfortable about there self in any way, be proud of who you are

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  • ck38
    12 years ago

    I was the same when I was growing up. You will probably change. Try to embrace the fact that you are growing into a woman.

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  • Jrody
    12 years ago

    This is normal but trust me you have nothing to worry about. As soon as you show them off you will notice how many guys will be chasing after you!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I'd say you are very young and just starting to develop. You're hardly likely to run about without a bra if you are big-breasted! Anyway, many women feel like you, they are there to do a job (feed babies) regardless of size, so you don't have to show them off if you don't want to.

    My cousin had breast cancer and had to have one breast removed. She always had big boobs but she had 4 kids, and said to me, "It doesn't really matter, it's done it's job!" Chemotherapy meant she couldn't have any more kids anyway.

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