Is it normal that i'm a girl and i get off quicker than my boyfriend?

He does take a long time, but I just feel like getting off in only 5-10 minutes for a girl is kind of soon. I have looked up ways to keep from getting off for a girl, but this is clearly a problem usually found in guys.

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  • kittykat9930

    If you ever get close to an orgasm, just stop and switch to other positions and try to prolong your orgasm the best you can so you both can keep enjoying! That's what I usually do. :)

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    • jass4444

      You may have a much higher sex drive or he may hit all the right buttons. Regardless you should be able to have several orgasms if you like. That can't be all bad.

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      • kittykat9930

        Well unfortunately, I only have clitoral orgasms and once I orgasm, it'd take a little while to try to have another, which sucks. :/ But he does hit all the right buttons!

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      • kittykat9930

        Well unfortunately, I only have clitoral orgasms and once I orgasm, it'd take a little while to try to have another but I wish I could have several orgasms. :/

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  • Shackleford96

    Yeah, but can't you just keep on going though?

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    • Sog

      Yeah I mean the whole issue with guys is that they have to stop and start all over again.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Relax, don't do it, when you want to go to it. Relax, don't do it, when you want to cum.

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  • tripw7

    If I am the guy, I think it's great that I got you to "get off" before me. That just means that I really got you excited. Enjoy it!

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  • As long as you don't tell him to hurry up during. That pisses me off.

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  • jeffa13

    You should be extremely happy about this. Never ever try to keep from getting off that's ridiculous. Most women complain about just the opposite the guy gets off & they are left unsatisfied. I'm sure as well your BF loves the fact he gets you off so soon & that takes a lot of pressure off of him to relax and enjoy making love to you. I told my GF that's a rule she cums first & she likes that. I always make her cum orally first then with intercourse. I always last longer than my GF & I like it that way because I know she is left satisfied & that's what its all about. You can cum several times during sex we normally get one shot then we need a small break to go again. So cum as fast and as many time as you can & enjoy the experience don't think about it just enjoy it.

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  • CreativeThinker

    So what is the problem your boyfriend never know You are off the job...Its usually a terribly embarrassing and a nightmare for guys to get off early and one of my friend say the moment he enters his penis he get off

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  • Mrstr8up

    U suck.... no really U suck his dick really good so hes closer to cumin when u start. There's many things to try hopefully if u got big titties let him tittie fuck them or find I out what position makes him cum faster do research on him ask one random day when ur not havin sex and when u find out eaze into it dont let that be ur only go to move. Theres a few other options also.

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  • QuitePossiblyInsane

    It depends on the girl. If you're the type that gets really sensitive after climax, I'd suggest training yourself to handle more than one. That way, if you orgasm first, it doesn't seem so tedious to wait around for him to be done, because you can work up to a second.

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  • megadriver

    I dunno. Probably normal. My girlfriend gets off faster than me.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    I think this would be preferable. The issue with men is they have to hold it in and that's hard to do. I would say just come when you are going to. I think it would be easier for your guy to finish quicker anyways. Less work for him.

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  • Naughtyboy666

    My girlfriend orgasims before i do 90% of the time!
    I think its great, sometimes she will have multiple orgasims! I love it when girls get off before me!!

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    • Johnnytherat

      why are you yelling!?

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  • adjacentred51

    Hell you should be getting more than one. I had a girlfriend like that. The only problem was that she got kinda selfish and never went above and beyond to please me. Plus she was pretty useless afterwords for hours.

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  • kawaiigurl

    just slow down when you feel it coming

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  • driedroses

    I'm the same. It's normal.

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