Is it normal that i'm a big flirt, then shy later?

I have this problem where I'm really flirty during school. I don't act shy and I'm loud and giggly. In fact, I'm giggly to a point where I seem stupid, but honestly I can't help it. I AM in very high honors math and english so I'm obviously not as stupid as I act- but I somehow act very stupid around boys. But then I have another problem-whenever I actually go on a few dates or I'm alone with a guy, I completely close up! I'm shy and nervous. I don't know if it's a confidence issue or what- but is there a way to fix this?

Voting Results
94% Normal
Based on 72 votes (68 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 )
  • LlamaFace

    yes, this is normal. Most slutty girls tend to get decent grade, but just have issues with common sence. You probubly just get shy when they are alone with you because you sence that they are expecting you to put out because you lead them on so much during lunch. Way to give every blue balls!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Smart*

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I do this when I think I won't ever see or talk to the person again (my low self esteem issues there) and that's why I'm so embarrassed later on for how I acted. Maybe its the pressure of being art

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Omg I'm exactly like you!!!! :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • shyppl :D

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • inuyasha0489

    its normal you sound like my soul mate lol expcet im super smart and cool lol

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Adri

    It's normal. When you are in a group enviroment you are having fun, no worries. When you are on a date you may feel like you have to make a good impression especially if you really like the guy. Don't worry once you meet a guy and get to know him better you will loosen up and become youself.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • singer123

    It's okay. This us typical highschool girl stuff. You'll grow out of it. But for now, enjoy being in control of the guys

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • timebobbu

    too many twofaced achieving giggling pricks like you.

    Comment Hidden ( show )