Is it normal that i'm 19 years old and have zero experience with a guy

the problem in your question is... you're asking what guys want.

why not consider that there's probably a man out there who likes you just as you are.

why worry about what pleases all men, and how to change to fit the mob... and instead of that, consider finding a man who's pleased with YOU

Oh wow. You told your friends you're a virgin and they didn't try to pressure you into sex? That's great! My ex had to hide her virginity while we were dating because she was getting put under unecessary pressure to start having sex when she didn't want you.
You sound like you're on the right path for yourself. You're only 19, you'll probably meet someone really nice soon!

I would never date a girl who has been with more than 3 partners. I covered this in another posts awhile ago. Basically the gist is, I'm not that experienced with girls, and because sex is something very important/intimate and special to me, I'd like to learn WITH her.

It isn't so much the act, as it is being able to learn about the other sex's body. What feels good, what doesn't, how it reacts to certain touch, kisses, etc.

So I think you should be proud of holding on to it. There are nice fat nerds out there like myself that would cherish you for being inexperienced.

You sound like a lady that I'd like to court.

Such hatred,

People suffer from inability to accept the truth.

I'm sarcastic, pragmatic, and tend to procrastinate, and often late.

Why would I get mad when someone tells me I'm always late.?

"Shut up" doesnt offer any contrary information to what I proposed, futher; where I live or any facts about my family life are irrelevant to the proposal as well.

Life is tough, unwillingness to own up to reality makes it that much more difficult.

However, I am interested, can guys be twats? I've been called lots of derogetory terms, but never a twat.

-P

You are normal.

You're not alone, I have some friends who didn't have their first kiss till they were 18, 19, 21. (I do have more friends who lost their virginity before 18, but that's beside the point) The most important thing is to make sure you're comfortable with doing whatever you do with whoever, so you don't have any regrets. Be honest with your future man and yourself. And who knows you might find that guy tomorrow, next week, or months/years from now. Good luck! AND CHILL YOU'RE NORMAL!

Well. I am 24 and almost have no "experience" in that sense with girls or guys (am somewhat bisexual, but) yeah that isnt a big deal...

You should be really proud of yourself :)
You deserve and you will find a man who will treat you with the same respect you have for yourself.

You are doing the right thing. Wait till you think you have met the right person. Cast away all your doubts. You are a lucky person!

Don't worry, I'm the same age and I've never had a boyfriend, a kiss, or any sort of relationship.
A lot of my girl friends are the same way, and it's no big deal. (Weirdly enough, we end up talking a lot about sex- just, like, turns ons and such. )

Yes it's normal. On the other hand I would suggest you don't be too judgmental. That isn't to say you shouldn't respect yourself, but you may be over looking a good guy, or have unrealistic expectations. It's a spectrum desperate pathetic slutty girl to a stuck up girl who thinks she's too good for any guy. I'm not saying your stuck up, but you may be a little too far on that side of the spectrum.

I am in exactly the same situation only I'm a guy. I understand the feeling of hearing you friends talk about sex and feel a bit like an outsider to the conversation.

I'm guessing its normal seeing how frequently these kinds of stories appear on this site.

Im 19.... virgin ... never kissed... And im darn good looking... and i dont really care about having sex..and i dont care if girl is virgin or not. But stay virgin pls lol.

Hey it kinda sucks being a man in this situation. The more I think of it, the more I'm glad I still have it, and can share it with someone special.

I hope you stay on the track you're on. You're young, take your time, choose wisely before giving up your virginity. Too many creeps out there. Few things in life are so hard to undo as giving up your virginity, can't be done. 99.9% of guys don't deserve you,or your clear thinking mind. You are rare! Too many of my daughters friends gave up their virginity in HS and ruined their lives with worthless slugs. One of her friends who is over 30 kept telling her to get out there and screw as many guys as you can before you commit to one. SHE's STUPID! not attactive in any way (esp. after hearing that come from her mouth), and probably a STD factory. You've got your head screwed on straight, don't become like that "so called friend", anybody worth a damn would rather have you as you are. SMART and SAFE.

Be careful there are guys out there that claim to want what you want but then once they've had your virginity they will dump you.

They will then brag to their mates about how they had a virgin and so on and so forth.

I think it's great that you think like that! Most people in my year have slept around, and let me tell you we're not even year ELEVEN yet, okay? You just hang in there, you'll find an AMAZING guy. Most girls dream of having their PRINCE CHARMING, and look at it this way: a real life prince will go for a real life princess.(you) =)

keep your self respect but dont stay a virgin 4 ever. find a nice guy that cares about u and respects u.

Sounds like you've got your head screwed on to be honest! Good for you. I think people that sleep around (largely because of peer pressure to have sex) do end up regretting it. 19 is young too. One of my close friends was a virgin until 21 and one of my old uni housemates was still a virgin at 22. It doesn't matter. I think you're looking for love rather than just sex and a opportunity to lose your virginity etc. There is a load of pressure to 'lose it' - I remember it well. I lost mine at 18 and most my friends had when they were 16 or 17 (and later felt it was too young...!) Anyway, they weren't being mean about it but they would sometimes jokingly take the mick until one day I told them to change the record! They did.

What I will say is, if an opportunity for a bit of 'fun' comes along, fine (by that I don't necessarily mean sex, I mean something like groping behind a bikeshed?! You proably have more class than that, though!) Be confident in your outlook. It sounds like you may lose it with someone you actually love and who loves you back, which is great.

There's nothing abnormal about that at all, its your choice at the end of the day and you should wait till the time is right and blah blah blah, but yea, don't worry about it too much and tbh, my first time wasn't exactly "special". and yess! I would love a girl with "limited" experience.

Most guys prefer inexperienced girls, yes. They want to be their first. If you want to get some experience, you can look around for a guy who might be interested. But don't sleep around with just any douchebag.

"Do guys like girls who are in-experienced?"
That is a question that no one can answer for you because it really depends on the guy. Some guy find it to be much more romantic to be with a girl that has not been with anyone or more than a couple of guys and some guys find it very unsettling to be a girl's first.

Overall though, a guy wouldn't care that much unless he was a serious douche. If he likes you for you then it wouldn't matter whether or not you are a virgin.

That said, it is becoming less common these days but I do know a lot of girls that are still virgins for whatever reason. Don't have sex just to have sex, save it for someone special. There is no pressure :D

What does it mean that you don't have "experience" with a guy? You mean you didn't fuck them? Darling, sex isn't as big a deal as it's cracked up to be. It's fun and it's pleasurable, but people really make too big a deal about it. It has nothing to do with your self respect and those who've had a lot of it shouldn't be judged as being sluts or anything, as long as they enjoyed what they did. It's when you do something you don't enjoy doing because someone pressured you into doing it. But then, that goes for all things in life. Not just sex.