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Whenever I tell people that they find it shocking. I'm a very attactive girl and I've dated a couple guys and have talked to many, but I never feel the urge to take things to a sexual level except for with one man. Is it really that crazy to have only been with one guy at my age?!
I'm 19 and still a virgin, I haven't had so much as s proper kiss before.
Judging from all the other stories on here I think it's normal.
Thank you for your comment! I think it's admirable that you're waiting for the right person =D
I'm not really waiting as such. Its just my lack of self confidence has made it hard to get romantically involved with girls.
If I end up losing it to someone who isn’t the right person that doesn’t necessarily have to be a bad thing. I think it would depend on the circumstances. As long as me and her didn’t regret it afterwards then I think that would be good enough.
But don’t get me wrong I would much prefer to be in a caring relationship than simply lose my virginity.
I'm a virgin too. I think it's perfectly normal. The way society is, people seem to only think of sex and therefore, consider having sex normal.
Sex is normal, but is it really everything?
I've had a lot of sex but not with anyone I really cared about which really sucks. It's like eating fast food, tastes great when you're hungry but you feel gross after.
If you're a hot girl-it's actually much more attractive to me that you haven't had many partners. It just shows more intelligence/integrity. Seems like whoever ends up with you is going to be a very lucky guy.
Thank you for your comment! I like you answer very much! I especially liked your fast food analogy! I always find it surpising that so many guys actually like that I've only been with one guy, I always thought guys liked sluts! But they can never believe it because of my body and my looks! And yes even random people on the street tell him he's a very lucky guy to have me =D LOL!
You're welcome, glad you liked it. ;) You sound too good to be true LD, it'd be sad if you were actually some fat middle-aged biker dude with a fiery red beard. lol
Kidding aside, I accept the fact that any girl I date in her 20s to 30s will have seen other men before me-but if she jumps from one bed to another, she won't be hopping in mine unless I was just looking for a quickie.
But for a serious relationship, I like 'good girls' who have morals, integrity and can keep her legs closed. :P
Haha! That would actually be quite funny, but you're right, it's the internet, you never know who you're talking to =P LOL! But thank you! Hopefully more guys feel the way you do!
lol yes indeedy-but fwiw I believe you are what you say you are. :)
In my case I'm a former pretty-boy who put on a few extra pounds cause I was too focused on my career and not on my health but I'm going to get back in fighting form this year.
I too know the advantage one has with good looks-I regret letting myself go. What a thing to confess on the internet. lol
Thanks, it'd be good if more men saw women the way I do, but it's hard to say. I think they're harsher and more judgmental than I would be.
I'm still an old-fashioned romantic who tries to see the best in a girl-though sluttiness is a turn-off and not to sound racist, but I don't like girls who date guys who are beneath them, especially if they give it up to black guys, that's a deal-breaker for me.
Well, I'm lucky to have found the man I want to be with forever! He loves me dearly and he's not bad on the eyes either ;-) I'm very happy, he's the only man I've ever wanted! We've been together for almost 4 years now! I understand what your saying everyone has their preferences! I personally don't find asians, or middle-eastern/indians attractive, but I'm sure there are good looking people in every race so I can't stereotype and group one whole race together! To each their own! LOL!
Absolutely, we all have our preferences, I also agree the majority of people in every race are unattractive. Beauty is rare and only a minority have it. My point was that people of races other than blacks usually tend to be more civilized, not get into crime, work harder and get better educated. They like to 'blame the system' for their situation but the reality is that they're lazy or stupid and don't work hard to get ahead. Don't mean to harp on them but just clarifying my point.
Anyways good on you for finding your man-though I'm not sure why you're telling me that. lol
Haha! I see what you're saying, but good-looking is good-looking whether you put on a few pounds or not! Yes, being good-looking with a banging body gives you some serious perks! I'm not even 21 and already get into clubs and bars just because of my looks! That's very true some men can be very judgemental, but most like the fact I'm pretty but I don't go sleeping around eventhough I could if I wanted to! And women can date below themselves in any race! There are grotesque people of every race! LOL!
Lol, that's true-I'm just a perfectionist though. :)
Enjoy your looks while they last-find a man of quality who's got a lot to offer. But more important than his career/looks is his character.
If he's not a compassionate, caring person who'll be there through the good and bad, he's not worth it-assuming you're looking for a good man rather than a piece of meat.
Yes women can date whoever they want-but I always find it a shame when they sell themselves short. Yes every race has ugly losers, but 99.9% of blacks tend to be pretty ugly-sorry that's the way I see it, if it makes me racist so be it. I'm not going to pretend to like people if I actually don't for political correctness.
Not just that, black men generally are cheaters, abusers, thugs, get into drugs and prostitution and are losers who go nowhere in life. Sorry but they give a bad name to themselves.
Look at Jews, Indians, Asians, White guys-just as a comparison-for the most part are hard-working, respect women (excluding the trailer-trash types), they get well educated and have great careers and good family values, etc.