Is it normal that i'm 24 never had a relationship and am very bitter

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Ok-I'm 24,never had a relationship as I can't get on with gay people at all,I hate them and i truthfully think they hate me!! Everything about gays annoys me and I don't want to be classed as one.
I had girlfriends when I was younger and had no issues!!now I'm older I'm just more confused since u came out!!I'm gettin more and more bitter!!please help...and btw I am a very complicated person ...

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Lose the bitterness and you should be more attractive to both sexes!

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  • Jen118584
    12 years ago

    You just need to find someone who is right for you. I know plenty of gay guys that aren't obnoxious in any way, including my closest cousin. Try online dating because all jokes aside, it's a great way to meet people. Especially if you converse online for quite some time and try to get to know each other a little bit before you meet. Be clear about what you want and what you don't want.

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  • Vcfromca
    12 years ago

    Hmm it seems you're not comfortable with your sexuality. You know deep down you're gay but you dont feel comfortable being "out." I'm gay and my philosophy when I came out was..,. and to this day is.... I'm not gonna live the way ANYBODY wants me to. I'm gonna live for ME. I'm the one who has to deal with ME and I'm here to make ME happy whether or not you like it. Think about it.

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    • Vcfromca
      12 years ago

      Also, I grew up in a conservative-christian American family. I feel this tid bit of information is instrumental to my opinion/thought process/philosophy.

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  • hokisgurl
    12 years ago

    Um r u into same sex or bisexual ?? Maybe. Go on a shin dig for your kind and maybe put yourself out there online dating same sex tours or get a hobby. Find yourself Sometimes it sucks being single I'm trying to cope with it your not the only one hang in there

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  • chocolatequirk
    12 years ago

    @AmiNormal101 thankyou...wish I had ur decorum as I got so annoyed with that previous comment and didn't k ow what to actually write back !!

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  • AmINormal101
    12 years ago

    He just said he is a complicated person so don't judge him of being gay because you might not understand what he's going through.. He already said "he hates gays and do not want to be classed as one", ain't that clear enough? grow up already..

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  • chocolatequirk
    12 years ago

    Ok nob-don't leave childish irrelevant comments on my post yeah!!...Yeah you say your 18 lol it shows mate!!lol bell end

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    Be happy at least you don't feel heart broken :(

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    Seems to me like a bit of self loathing. If you hate "gay people" then just go back to dating girls. Problem solved.

    "Check in the mirror my friend
    No lies will be told then
    Pointin' the finger again
    You can't blame nobody but you!"

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  • chocolatequirk
    12 years ago

    Cheers man!! X

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Here's my philosophy. There are 6 billion people in this world, odds are you'll marry one of them. Honestly just get out there and be social. You seem like you have conflicting emotions but it honestly sounds intriguing. Good luck.

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