Is it normal that i'm 28 and still virgin

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I'm 28, male. I am still a virgin. I'd three girlfriends, but couldn't able to do with them. with my current girlfriend I tried three times already. I get boner and when we start doing it, IDK how I lose control and my boner go lose. Once, when we tried, we both had so much pain that I couldn't go in her after few inches. If I masturbate, every thing go well. IDK whats wrong. Do I lake of concentration or something seriously wrong with me? I even pre cum very fast, even without boner sometimes. Should I go to Doctor? I am getting so depressed and its so humiliating. Please help me.

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago

    I'm not sure, ask the search bar.

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    • 69
      10 years ago

      as much as i agree there's a profusion of 'iin im a virgin' stories, this op seems to have a unique story and may or may not have a health issue related to it. i think he needs answers

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      • Shackleford96
        10 years ago

        You are right, and I should have read the story..

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    wow YOU were in pain the first time? you definitely did something wrong there. You probably have nerves, which is causing the loss of erection. Although I honestly can't work out why you were in pain. I know why SHE might have been in pain, but you? no clue.

    p.s. most people count the first few inches, making you not a virgin.

    p.p.s going and seeing a doctor may help. It may not be nerves or maybe there's an anti-anxiety or Viagra you can take?

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    • mr143
      10 years ago

      Idk what went wrong but I couldn't able to did it. I am getting stressed out and afraid it may repeat again. I feel scare to go to bed now.

      I think I was in pain cuz of nerves connected to tip, you know, that joint the skin to the tip.

      Ok, so you think I'm not a virgin now?

      P.s. Viagra is addictive and have some side effects too.

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      • quentari
        10 years ago

        After thinking about it if there was basically no lubrication and so your foreskin got pulled too far while trying to enter it probably would have hurt you both, but regular sex shouldn't hurt you in any way. Especially since you masturbate.

        Yeah I count the tip so by my standards you aren't a virgin.

        p.s. that's for you and your doctor to discuss :)

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    • 69
      10 years ago

      same thought here about the pain. i'm sorry op, i wish i had something better to say than keep trying

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