Is it normal that i'm 20 and single ?
Hi everyone, my name is Mike, 20 years old, second year on an engineering faculty, and I'm still single. Well, to start this off, i'll tell you more about myself. 6'3, 170ish pounds, relatively good looking now, and extremely good looking now compared to my teens. So, all of this falling in love non-sense started when I was 16. I had this massive crush, and still do, on this girl that was waaay out of my league. Like, really, way out. So, that was the time i started noticing all the flaws i had. Acne, i was the same height and weighted 120, the way I dressed, walked, talked, my haircut. I felt as everything about me was wrong. Then, with the help of my parents, which noticed the insecurities i had, assisted with getting treatments for the acne, i started working out, changed my haircut, started practicing the way I express myself, read a lot of books to expand my vocabulary and minimize the possibility of being confused, or lacking the words to express myself. So, I've been in the gym for 3 years now, and I've made some significant gains. I'm not like big or anything, but more like really defined etc. So, regarding that, my confidence received a massive boost, I actually started to like myself and be happy about the way I look. But still, I don't have a girlfriend. I'm not one of those guys that approaches women, I'm more like the kind of guy that meets them over a friend and so on. I've been told to be extremely funny, probably because I don't force myself to think about the girl that i'm talking to as a possible girlfriend, so, that really helps. I've also been told to be a fool for not going for the girl that liked me. It's just that i simply cant make a compromise and just be with someone. I want someone thats appealing to me, and be with that someone. And i also have high standards. When I was younger i was underestimating myself, now I'm overestimating myself, and have trouble finding the balance in between. I've been on dates, well, not really dates, it was more like i pick up the girl, we go chill with someone else as well, i know she likes me, and she knows i like her, but not to the point that i want to make a move on her, so nothing happens. Ever.
My question is, am I doing something wrong, and if yes, what ?
PS Excuse my English, not a native language :)