Is it normal that i'm 21 and never had a serious boyfriend?

When I was in highschool, I never wanted one. I hated seeing them every single day. I always found little things that bugged me about them...
Then I graduated. Hung out with the same crowds for a year or two. Then had an emotionally destructive, year long, "Casual Relationship", and now here I am... Pretty, vapid, broken and single, with no desire to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone.
I'm a bartender and people constantly ask me why I'm single and I get the weirdest reactions when I say I'm not looking.
Is it normal?

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83% Normal
Based on 29 votes (24 yes)
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  • OliveOil

    I'm turning 21 in less than a month and I've never had a boyfriend in my life. It might be because I'm anti social and have trust issues, but it just scares me when people ask me out. I'm planning on being a single cat lady when I grow older.

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  • ya-lyublyu-tebya

    You might be asexual. Nothing wrong with it.

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