Is it normal that i'm 20 and i've still had no relationship?

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Okay, here goes...*embarassed*
I'm turning 21 this year and I've never been in a relationship...I wasn't worried about that before since no one from my group of close friends had boyfriends/girlfriends either (people do tend to compare themselves with those around them). Only now, it's starting to dawn on me that I may be somewhat queer: My 13yr old brother has had 2 girlfriends, and my mom was actually pregnant at my age...
I'm open to same sex relationships too, but still, I just don't seem to get anywhere beyond friendship... sometimes that just makes me feel lonely...care to share your thoughts?

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  • Shrunk
    12 years ago

    i am the same but I kind of have the opposite problem... I wish I could just have friends instead of meeting people only to find out later they were looking for relationship... I'm not in to that romance crap but everyone in my age group seems to be... i'll be 20 this yr... but anyway, do you really want to have a relationship or do you just feel like you are supposed to by now? That's how i felt but i don't really care much anymore,you shouldn't either just do whatver makes you happy... there is no rush, you seem nice i'm sure you'll find the right guy or girl some day...

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    • aoi2108
      12 years ago

      I guess my feelings are mixed....I do feel that I'm supposed to have had some relationship experience at 20, but then sometimes I badly want someone like that in my life. The problem seems to be that I'm afraid of getting too close to people I hardly know, it can take me years to be comfortable around them, and before I realize it I'm afraid to ruin the friendship...

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  • dolphin2525
    11 years ago

    I'm 28 and I'm still looking for that guy. I never been in a relationship either, and I get lonely so much. Wondering is love ment for me. Every guy I talk to... it just doesn't workout.

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  • lil
    12 years ago

    I was worried about this sort of thing too, as none of my relationships ever lasted more than a few week / months, I thought there was something wrong with me, then I realised it's the men I was picking, insecure, childish players, but now I've just turned 26 and am in the third year of my first ever long term relationship and are now engaged, most of my friends have had at least 2 long term relationships by now and all have children, I realise it happens when it does, and to not spend your single years worrying that'll it'll never happen, because WHEN it does, you'll regret and mourn the fact you wasted those years to be free and fun obsessing!! It'll happen, you're only 21, that's a fantastic age, live it!! :-)

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  • TheBigKid
    12 years ago

    i feel the same. like i will go 30+ and still be single. sometimes it worries me but then again i dont care really because sometimes its like you dont need her. or she isn't right.

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    • aoi2108
      12 years ago

      That's exactly the feeling!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It could be worse I mean you could of had alot of relationships then complain about them like everyone else does. I have only been in two relationships (cant really call them relationships) but they are boring I would say you arent missing out on anything but others would dissagree.

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