Is it normal that i'm 29 and have never had a girlfriend?
Ok, I know it's not normal--not only have I never had a girlfriend, I've never as much as kissed a girl. It is a vicious cycle at this point--I am too embarrassed to do anything about it, because I'm worried that the girl will find out and... I don't know what, but something bad. That keeps me from actually pursuing a girl, because I am too full of anxiety. People who know tell me that I have a lot to offer, but it's hard for me to trust someone with my secrets. Do you think it's possible to get out of this mess?