Is it normal that i'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or first kiss?

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I've always been really shy and quiet. I'm 18 and I've never had my first kiss or a boyfriend. I've never even had a "thing" with a guy. I don't even have any guy friends. All the guys I know would be considered acquaintances. Its not that I'm afraid of talking to them its that I don't know how to carry on a relationship with them and really bond. Is this normal?

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87% Normal
Based on 55 votes (48 yes)
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  • umph
    7 years ago

    Congratulations! You are normal.
    The sluts are not normal.

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  • _Jesus_
    7 years ago

    Don't let the Kardashians pressure you into something that you are obviously not ready for yet.
    Take it slow. Take it easy.

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago

    You will be fine. When the time is right it will happen.

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  • Loveleest
    7 years ago

    I'm in this situation,sigh.
    It's just something I've accepted and learnt to get over with.

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  • RedDom
    7 years ago

    NO!!!!! IT IS NOT!!!!!

    Woman!!! Men who are bad at sex and engage in slut-shaming (for social reasons) will try to tell you it's normal, but YOU'RE MISSING OUT ON SO MUCH!!!! IT IS NOT NORMAL. And woe on our sick culture if it is...

    Animals do fuck all the time when they're past puberty.
    WE ARE ANIMALS. YOU'RE PAST PUBERTY. YOU NEED SEX. WE HAVE TO SATISFY OUR INTELLECTUAL, EMOTIONAL AND INSTINCTUAL PARTS. DO NOT NEGLECT YOURSELF!!!!! Go practice having sex with a guy you can learn to enjoy it with. Really. DO IT.

    S E X . I S . B E A U T I F U L .

    Please, for your own good self, start to open up. Slowwwlyy... Not too quickly, if you don't feel like having it happen quick now. Maybe just try to wear clothes that make you feel and look A LITTLE BIT sexier... that make you start to fantasize about the men you catch glimpsing at you... don't go full slutty, of course (or go once or twice... why not?). Look at yourself on the mirror... and see you're a woman who deserves to cum! Whoever tries to repress you DOES NOT WANT YOUR HAPPINESS. (Of course ppl who want you to keep your best health and not have unwanted pregnancy do want your happiness.)

    As a woman, YOU DESERVE TO BE MADE TO CUM, OVER AND OVER AGAIN... BE SUCKED EVERYWHERE, SPANKED, PENETRATED, FUCKED. Till you Orgasm. Find a man who will be kind in showing you the ropes. You don't need a knight in shinning armor at all to do this now - just a decent guy who will do you right and be quiet about it after you had fun and practiced it together. And if a man ever tries shaming you by crying to the four winds you had some sex, you can always go:

    A) "Of course not, I'd never have anything to do with that disgustingly ugly thing."
    OR
    B) "Yes, and he was awkward and terrible. Didn't know what to do. Will never allow him to be near me again."

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    • Loveleest
      7 years ago

      Hmm, this sounds a little ott.

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  • lundi
    7 years ago

    I'm 25 and my 1st kiss is still here. I do have moments of doubts but I enjoy being single.

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  • shuttuppnerddplz
    7 years ago

    I got my first kiss when i was 21, no joke, its okay totally fine

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    I didn't get my first kiss till I was 17.
    You're fine.

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  • mikhaildb
    7 years ago

    You're fine, especially if you're just shy. Everyone goes at their own pace. You'd be surprised how many people pretend to have had a kiss when they haven't because they feel ashamed. They shouldn't feel ashamed, it's not a big deal.

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