Is it normal that i'm 20 and have never been kissed?

In all honesty, I think that whatever guy you date will be glad that you are a virgin. Men like women who are innocent. I have no idea where you acquire this creed that "men won't like me because I've never been kissed." You are way too hard on yourself. Think about this, there is probably a guy out there who is in the exact same shoes. Give me three more years and I'll be that guy. Eventually, you will meet a man who will like you for who you are, doesn't matter if you're virgin because all he'll care about is that you are an amazing individual.

I was almost 21 before my first kiss. I was too shy to talk to girls. She had to do the pursuing.

I was 27 before I lost my virginity to the woman who became my wife. This was my choice. I had been in plenty of relationships between the ages of 21 and 27 with many girls who were plenty willing (and many girls who would have said no if asked).

Maybe you should ask a guy out. I am willing to bet there is more than one guy in your life who wants to ask you out but is nervous, intimidated, shy, and/or scared.

What's the worst that could happen? Someone says, "No" when asked out. And remember, "No" isn't necessary a reflection on you, but may instead be a reflection on the guy's circumstances.

The best times in my life started when I learned how to say, "Hi, my name's (BigGuy), it's nice to meet you." Small talk. "Can I interest you in dinner and a movie?"

You cannot change the fact that you have never been kissed.

Some people wait very long for that moment to come. I advise you to wait for the right guy and the right moment.

Don't hurry into any of those things. The best things in life take time.

Thinking about this will only m ake you feel worse. And, what kind of a guy will judge you for being a kiss-virgin? Not the right guy, I am sure.

This is my case too, so I don't think I should be advising you, haha. Just wait for the right guy and make it magical. I'm sure it he is in fact THE RIGHT GUY, he won't give a damn about your kiss-virginity.

Well, I kissed girls before but I'm a virgin. A lot of my other friends have gone through multiple partners and relationships, I barely had one! I'm not cocky but I think I'm a decent looking guy from what people tell me hahas and yeah I DEFINITELY prefer innocent girls more than party-harty girls. Try to get your first kiss tho, its not really that big of a deal just dont go kissing too much people after you've gotten it :P

I don't know any men who'd prefer a girl who's kissed tons of guys. At least if you kiss someone, he'll know it means something. If you get kissed by a girl who's kissed tons of guys already, you'll feel way less special.

I think that if this is bringing you down you should do something about it! Just go to a club where there's tons of desperate boys etc and have fun and feel confident. And I know everyones saying wait for the special person but when you find that special person it won't make the kiss any less special just because you've kissed a couple of other guys who meant nothing to you? Plus your special person can't be that great if he gets angry he's not your first kiss when your 20.... Good luck!

I would rather a virgin girl, because she wouldn't have previous expectations. None of that "Well my last boyfriend did this, and was this big, and would do this with *insert appendage*" Unfortunately a lot of the girls my age are married or have kids now. 27 sucks.

Where were you when I was in school? I would have rather been socially awkward with someone else, than socially awkward alone. ><

Not even by your mom or dad?

To boys I recommend make russian kiss. It's when you kiss on lips. Never fail and girl enjoy it. For girls, so you just must make some ideas for him that you want a kiss.

Please please please believe the cliches. They are totally true.

Kisses are great, but because of the reasons they happen. It might feel like it'll never happen, but it will, and you'll be damn glad you didn't find a guy out of pressure and self-loathing. Not that trying to become less shy would be bad, just as long as it's for the right reasons, not because you feel too old to not have a boyfriend yet.

Like expert I'll tell you something. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME and do it, great woman. :D

Don't let it bother you. There's certain things that I haven't done either with guys, and sometimes I feel really awkward talking to them too. But maybe you should be the one to take the intiative to ask a them out. Just don't think too much into it and just ask them.

I sort of feel the same way. Just turned 21 a little while ago and I have yet to kiss a girl yet. Suffice to say, I've never had a girlfriend and am still a virgin - unless you count the hours spent in front of porn/hentai. Mostly because I am shy. That and I want to move out on my own and work before I go out and stuff.

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