Is it normal that i'm 21 and have never been in a relationship!

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So almost everyone around is either getting married or engaged or is already in a long term relationship. And some are always dating and flirting or have something interesting going on in their love life. Except ME! It's been ages since a guy expressed an interest in me. Idk why i'm not ugly or fat or nerdy or weird. It's depressing me. My 21st birthday is tomorrow and each year i become lonelier. Am I normal? :/

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Based on 46 votes (37 yes)
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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    You aren't alone. I just made a post like this recently. I don't know if it's desperation, or just biological, but I feel a deep urge within me to have a relationship, but to pursue one is a different story. I don't know where to start and where to look. I just turned 20 a couple months back and I was thinking to myself it's about time. People are telling me I just have to start from the ground up, dating and such. I've never had a date in my life, and I'm such a hopeless romantic that I feel like wherever I am, if she's the one, I'll see her. Well, it's been nice commiserating.

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  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago

    Yes it is normal. This question has been asked many time on this site. The search bar is your friend :)

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  • Honey_Badger
    10 years ago

    We can go out... wait huh? Winky face what does that even mean :0. Fine it's over. Ok go find number 2.

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  • woman1986
    11 years ago

    I think its normal yes, there are so many reasons why we haven't dated or kissed someone yet, we all have different rythms and experiences. I started dating very late because i was very shy in my teen years, and not all men are interested in me and vice versa. I live in a small town as well so meeting new people is very hard. xxx

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  • mas0n
    11 years ago

    y did you delete my comment

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