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I just can't do it! Sometimes I'm really horny, but I just don't know what I'm doing..is it normal o be like that?
Are there any step by step guides or articles? Is there a trick to it? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated.
I never masturbated until I was about 18 and I was totally lost at how to do it. I think the only way to truly get the hang of it is to 'explore'. Feel around, see what feels good and what feels weird. Just takes practice. It took me awhile to get it right.
I used to look up masturbation techniques and some of the questions I came across had some people swearing on the use of water to pleasure oneself.
May I ask why you want to masturbate? I'm asking because I don't understand that you want to masturbate and you don't know how to do it - I mean, for a person who is really horny and physically needs sexual release finding a way how to do it is an instinctual thing and such a person naturally finds out that something feels VERY good and just starts to do it - maybe even before they know what masturbation is. Such a person can improve their masturbation technique or find new ways how to do it later but knows some basics how to get off even without any information.
If you are a female, it is normal, plenty of women do not know how to masturbate, the question is asked here almost every week, so you are not different from other women. There are many guides on the internet, try to put something like "how to masturbate women female" into google and hopefully you will find some tips. However, I do not know if they are reliable or not or if these tips work only in male fantasy or only in the case of the female who created the video or article.
O_o up and down hand motion? Lmaoo what the fuck I don't even know I'm not even a guy XD
Using porn as a kind of "guideline" how to masturbate may be useful if the OP is male but not if the OP is female. The reason? Female solo/masturbation porn doesn't depict women who REALLY masturbate in front of the camera. On the other hand, male solo videos can show REAL masturbation. I like watching male solo porn and I've seen hundreds of such videos - some of them were quite shitty but some of them were obviously authentic. I also like watching my boyfriend masturbate and I watch him quite often so no need to think I can't tell. As for female solo porn, I've seen several videos as it was my boyfriend's favourite porn genre in the past. He was aware that they are faked but when he saw me masturbate in person he said that all female masturbation in porn was not only faked but COMPLETELY different. I was curious when he said that and watched several videos and I can tell you - no woman can have an orgasm that way. It is obviously done for male users and has nothing to do with REAL female masturbation.