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I'm a 21 year old virgin. I'm not ugly, just a normal 21 year old students with lots of friends etc that just hasn't found 'the right guy' yet. Just hasn't happened yet. Is it normal ? xx
Yes, it is perfectly normal... Why do you have to think if you are normal or not... it is what you are and just accept it. Think about it this way, you just want to have sex with anyone for the first time or you want it to be a good memory?? ...
I am 22 n a virgin... one year your senior uh? hehehe... :)
it's normal if you feel comfortable with that. Verginity is not a value for itself (as someone says), it depends totally on you and the deep reasons that makes you want to keep you virgin. Keep in mind that human beings have a natural "attraction" towards sex, so if you dislike sex, something is wrong. If you're just waiting for the right guy and if you fear your first time, that's normal but remember that more you dream about "The Right Guy", more you can get burned when discover your first guy won't be the Right One (first guy rarely are the Right One for life!)
Yeah it's normal I am a guy, 18 and a virgin for people to question if it's normal to hold out are pople who are weak minded. Just let it happen when it's suppose to happen...don't just be a sl*t and get laid all the time some guys...like myself see sex as a true act of love, and well yes it is rare but there is guys out there. and no I am not ugly or a fag, just waiting for the love of my life...
Ah perfect :) finally one person in this world who understands the nature of being a virgin... well to an extent anyway :) don't listen to what people will tell you about going out and getting laid its really truly gross to know people just tell virgins to get laid. I personally am a virgin also albeit im not exactly good looking, my point of view on sex... Every time you have sex with a different person you've technically slept with everyone else they've slept with if contraception isnt used, for example you sleep with someone and they've slept with 3 guys and one girl you've technically slept with those 3 guys and the one girl too, then you have to go and think about who the 3 guys and 1 girl have been sleeping with too, sadly the list for that goes on and on, don't worry about being a virgin there are plenty of virgin guys out there in the world i promise being one myself i joined a group (a bunch of friends i might say from around the world) who are a bunch of virgins, the list varies from ages around 14-40 (yes i know being a 40 year old virgin is kinda weird but it happens... a lot and i have a best mate actually and hes never had sex in his life hes a hardworking 20 year old guy who finishing off in university and has never really thought about sex till recently and even now hes a virgin even though women throw themselves at him. Don't be afraid just go with the flow :) if the time comes the time will come just don't go out and have sex just because your friends tell you to. Do it because you want to do it and perhaps it may come down just to one guy you never know and he might end up being your lover for life... dont loose your virginity on a whim to a guy who says he loves you if he loves you he can surely wait for sex yes? Let me know what you think? :)
Frank...:)
if ur happy its up to you! :) im just glad you arent one of those sluts from my old school who lost their virginities when they wer 13 (no joke and it wasnt rumors bcuz two got pregnant). Still its really normal!
I lost my virginity at 20 but only because I met the right guy, seriously one day when you're in a happy healthy relationship with someone it just won't seem like a big deal.
Also when you lose it... nothing changes (dundundun) you're still you, you don't become wiser, more attractive or more grown-up. Just keep that in mind.
Nah, it's normal. I'm two days shy of 21 and I'm still a virgin. I go to parties, date, do pretty well in school, and according to what people tell me, I'm good-looking and have a friendly personality. I just don't want to. I'm also really scared of STD's and pregnancies (that happened to my sister and my mom) so that might explain why I avoid going all the way. I'm not a conservative person, either - I smoke weed, go streaking, get drunk, eat vegan and vote politically liberal. I just don't have the whole "sex thing" high up on my agenda.
I used to wonder about this too. I'm definitely not ugly and I'd always get hit on and it wasn't like I'm not a very sexual person because I very much am. It's just that my standards were too high. I lost my virginity at 20 when I found my boyfriend. It worked and I had no desire to have sex with anyone I deemed to be less than worthy or just didn't attract me. It's totally normal. Just be sure that you feel comfortable when the time comes. If you give it away to someone random you'll regret it. Believe me. I've had this conversation with many people who have felt that they gave it up too quickly out of curiosity.
no, its perfectly normal and OK. Just because everyone is having sex with people they love and getting STDS does not make it a good thing- in fact, you are the one whose lucky for holding out for the right guy. Its your private business and no one has to know.. You shouldn't throw away something so precious... and yes virginity is a precious thing not to give up to the wrong person. The guy who falls in love with you will cherish you more for it!
In my opinion, it is normal. I'm 16 and still a virgin. Virginity to me is something valuable since everyone seems to be losing it. I've heard of children who haven't hit puberty yet and their having sex. Tsk tsk. Oh well.
If you're 21 and still a virgin, it just means you have standards and you didn't give in to our slutty society just for the sake saying you've had sex. I wish more people were like you.
Find the right person imo, AIDS is on the rise gotta be careful these days :D
whoops I meant to say just bc peopple are having sex with people they DONT love
No it's not normal. In fact it's quite unusual. Many would say it's very special, and very very very few would say that it's a bad thing.
You put this question out there for others to answer, and yet, I can%%u2019t see any good reason why you should care what anyone says. You can have sex for the first time whenever you chose to.