Is it normal that i loved her this much?

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So my fiance, whom I have been living with a little over two years now, left me this week. It happened completely out of the blue, and for no real reason other than she was confused. But now I find myself living in a strange city that I moved to for her, in an apartment that I got for her, and working a job that I hate for her. I find that my entire life was wrapped around her, and I have no direction and no idea what to do with myself now. is it normal that I loved her so much that my entire life was based around her and i'm just drifting through life now?

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  • c21smith12
    11 years ago

    You move to a strange city, for her? You are, "working a job that you hate for her?" I know the reason she was confused; you obviously felt bitter about the things you did in the name of love and were clinging on to her too tightly. She had to leave so that you could stand on your own, be your own person, and realize that you are to blame for the decisions you've made.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Normally I would say quit being bitter or some such thing, but I can actually see where you are coming from. I can see how this would affect her, thanks for your input.

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      • c21smith12
        11 years ago

        Any regrets?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Yes and no, I still haven't gotten far enough from the situation emotionally to tell for sure.

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Hope you learned a beautiful lesson MGTOW

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  • Robyn100
    7 years ago

    Co-dependent.

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  • omg12
    12 years ago

    Its normal in the way that u r sad but it isnt in he way that you based ur life around her... So idk

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Ugh not good. The only thing I can say is that hopefully you learned something from all of this.

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