Is it normal that i love this girl

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I'm 22 and she is 16 she will be 17 in july though.
And well I love her I've never loved someone as much as her. All my ex girlfriend's lied to me and
she is the only girl who respects me.
Even though I'm really insecure, over protective and I even have insomnia she loves me. She knows everything about me we have so much in common it's kinda weird.
Well but she is 16 and lives in germany I'm 22 and I live in colorado this is such a big distance.
We've been together for one and half years now.
She knows how I look like. She is really pretty.
I never really thought about the age gap yes she is 16 and yea she does look young but I don't see her as a child she means so much to me.
She said her feelings don't change for someone and well she never had a boyfriend before.
I want to marry her someday asap of course I'll wait until she is over 18. We both are serious.

So what do you guys think about that? IIN? For me it's normal cause I love her but my friend can't understand me. Even though if this shouldn't be normal I'll love her anyway.
And no I'm not a pedophile!

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  • Beeslee
    12 years ago

    i think its normal. age is taboo only in some societies. humans that want to do taboos are seen as weird. society is unfair to the lesser.

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  • plum6
    12 years ago

    the age difference is fine, I would be more concerned with the whole living about as far away from eachother as humanly possible thing you two have going on?

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  • kitzz12345
    12 years ago

    you said in a comment that the distance was a problem why not one of you live with the other like move and vist home every once and a while thats what i would do

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    • nandemonai
      12 years ago

      yes but its not easy the visit each other when she lives in germany i dont even have so much money and she is still 16 she cant move in yet

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      • kitzz12345
        12 years ago

        i understand that im tight budget 2 but when she is old enough things may not be so tight budget and because you 2 love eachother life will bring you to together face 2 face =-)

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  • Koda
    12 years ago

    Technically you can't be a pedophile/hebephile loving girls over 16... usually they're physically mature... so it's the same as loving any adult woman over 16.

    Her age is not the problem here, the distance is. No matter how much you think you know this girl, you don't know her as much as you think. People are different online, they have time to think and to react/filter themselves, and you don't know their eccentricities. She might seem like an entirely different person in real life.. a person you might not be able to love, let alone marry. Just warning you.. ^.^

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    • nandemonai
      12 years ago

      yes but i've already met her in real life and she is perfect :)

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  • Alaska
    12 years ago

    I think it is normal, but I think you have to wait till she is at list 20. My cousin, she married a older man too. When she was 17 when she married a man, how was 26. And it was a mistake, because she couldn't life her life properly. So wait, If you lreally ove her.

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  • uPSIDEOFDOWn
    12 years ago

    youre so lucky to have love, man. honestly. push the criticism from your mind and wait out that year and two months :) people are likely just jealous of what you have. im happy for you. i hope to fall in love someday.

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