Is it normal that i love someone that desnt love me back?

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I have a friend. I've known him for 4 years now, and now I have the hots for him. Last year, we was my best friend, but I never developed feelings for him. But this summer, he hit me. I knew I loved him , but I didn't know it was like that until he started dating one of my friends and him started dating. I saw them kiss and hug and hold hands, and I wanted him so much. Yeah we kissed each other on the cheeks, but we were best friends, I mean thats just our nature. We hugged and held each others hands, but in a best friend kind of way. They weren't though. Well they finally broke up, and I thought now is my chance. Well I took it, and he took me. We broke up and I was devastated, but still in love. Well we started dating again, and lasted for about 2 months. We went down the drain. I was still in love with him, he was all I talked about. We talked and we had more in common than I did with anybody else. He told me he was hyper one night, and was just distracted by the playoffs, but I knew he was tired. I knew him more than he knew himself. He said he liked me a lot, that in fact he loved me, but he won't be with me for the world. is it normal that I don't give up and keep going after him. I love him but he doesnt love me. IIN? Please tell me if i should give up or not! Help!

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  • onebigbang
    8 years ago

    He may be trying to get ur attention but you think he hates you. Or it may be u r following him too much maybe being too desperate.

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  • TightRedShirtPurpleSkinnyJeans
    12 years ago

    If you force him to do this it is most likely that he will just end up resenting you for putting him in a relationship he didn't want to be in in the first place. It will make you easier for him to blame if something goes wrong and get angry at you.

    I agree with sexytime, you should try to meet someone new, who knows, he mightstart to miss you.

    You can't force these things, you have to wait for him.

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    I agree with restawulf, sit down with him and talk about it. I think you need to be firm though, tell him you want a straight answer of whether or not he wants to be with you. At least that way you'll get closure. But you may have to come to terms with moving on. I had to do it yesterday, I left a message for my best friend, the girl I love more than anything that I couldn't be part of her life because she doesn't love me.

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  • RestaWulf
    12 years ago

    Well what people used to tell me is you can't change a persons feelings you can't tell them to do this or that. So you just have to deal with him for now.if you guys have been on and off for a while maybe its time to call it quits and move on to someone else. I'm a girl to trust me I know it's hard. But maybe you could sit down and talk with him about it? I don't know him so it's hard to tell you a straight answer.

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