Is it normal that i love my girlfriend, but i love another girl too?

I've been together with my girlfriend for over a year, and I love her! but about a week ago, I went to a skitrip with some friends, and I fell in love with this girl who i stayed up with every night and hanged with. We didn't do anything that would compromise my relationship, but we had this special eye contact and we talked alot. We've known eachother for about two years, and I've always thought she looked really good, but I haven't felt like this for her before.. I still love my girlfriend, but now I love this other girl too. Is that normal? And what do I do?

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  • plum6

    I am currently in a similar situation. I have been with my gf for over 4 years, but I have fallen in love with another woman a couple of weeks ago. I have found it to be a really confusing and difficult situation to be in, even though especially for guys I am sure it is not uncommon. I have been dating both girls for a while now, but at one point a decision just has to be made. I would advise you to follow your heart and chose the one you feel most happy being around, but I know its pretty much an impossible task. good luck man

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    • Justsomejerk

      *that point where the decision has to be made is before you start dating the second girl.

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  • fartonmyface

    Girl's are stupid like that. They go for dudes that they know have girlfriends because they like the challenge. Trust me, if you didn't have a girlfriend, chances are this girl wouldn't have been so interested in you, regardless of your physical appearance. Forget this girl. Stay with your girlfriend. Leaving someone you truly care about over someone you have an infatuation with is a bad bad bad call and it will ALWAYS come around to bite you in the butt. Karma is real, my friend.

    But in reality you aren't going to give a damn about what I said and you're going to keep crushing on this other girl until it becomes an issue. Then you'll learn the hard way.

    Good luck.

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  • DADNSCAL

    You need to man up and decide before you hurt both of them.

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  • dodongos

    I just got over the same experience. It was hell. I was with my girlfriend for 11 months, and was in love with another girl for 3 of those months. I got myself into some really deep trouble.

    Eventually, my girlfriend fell into a jealous rage and I exploited it as an opportunity to make the toughest decision ever.

    I left her. But I don't regret it, even though it was painful. So what I'm saying to you, is that you probably know your decision already, but would really hate to lose the other. Unfortunately, you have to, before you lose everything.

    Best of luck.

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  • adtrbfmv

    Fist. Fist. I had to ruin it didn't I?! *first

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  • adtrbfmv

    Dude, you obviously didn't love the fist girl a lot if you fell in love with another.

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  • curiouskate101

    its called infactuation not love . u cant love someone that fast expesally when your suppous to love your girlfriend. that shows that you never really loved ur gf . she deserves better.

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  • Thatguy777

    I don't know what you should do. Maybe you should tell the new girl that you think you might have feelings for her, even though you have a girlfriend and that you're not sure what to do. If she feels the same way toward you, you should really consider how much you love your girlfriend and how this could affect you in the long run. It the girl doesn't feel the same way, then you can forget about her and continue to be with your girlfriend. Maybe you should tell your girlfriend too, but be careful how you word it, because it will probably break her heart. Think about it. If you leave your girlfriend for another girl, it will break her heart and make her feel worthless. Honestly, you should probably stay with your girlfriend, but if you find out you don't love her, you can't help that. Hopefully this will help you somehow.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    If you was really in love with your girlfriend you wouldn't have fell in love with the other girl.
    You probably think you love your girlfriend because you have been together for so long and she represents stability and security.

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