Is it normal that i love my boyfriend too much?

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I am in this whole new relationship with this guy that I barely know, in a way. Long story short, I saw him once without talking to him and kinda judged him because he's a hipster (and I'm more of a socialite), so I asked this guy for his number and started texting him. At first it was a joke, but we got really really close through text, then we met, and now we've been officially dating for two weeks and, well... I think I might love him way too much.

I think about him all the time (literaly). I have to keep myself from texting him several times every hour. I get frustrated when he doesn't answer a text within a few minutes. I want to see him as much as possible. I find myself bored when I'm with friends, just because they aren't him. I have dreamt about him every night since we've been together. I get mad when he sees his friends and I'm free. I already stress that he might not actually like me... Now, he's gone to Jamaica or a week and I'm becoming crazy. It's been 3 days already and already I miss him more than I've never missed anyone.

Is this normal? It never happened with any of my past boyfriends (I'm 19, by the way). What should I do?

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Based on 37 votes (32 yes)
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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal to love someone that way. But you're being a little too clingy. If you love him give him some space. And I hate when people get mad when you don't reply to a text right away. People should be able to reply whenever they want to. Anyway, not a lot of guys like clingy girlfriends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Dont act too needy. You'll come off as controlling and scare him away.

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  • poetic_girl
    11 years ago

    No your just infactuated its normal the first few months of dating and then you'll learn each other so well that you'll have no problem with the whole occasional "space" thing cause you'll want some too lol!

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  • Shroot
    11 years ago

    He's shaggin dem Jamaican bitches mon

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    Eurgh. That sounds excessive.

    If I were you, I'd find that level of obsession upsetting. If I were him, I might find it too full on and want to distance myself from you. Either way it's not great.

    Hopefully the feelings will die down somewhat and reach a normal, manageable level, where you don't feel like the world will end if he doesn't reply to your text in 3 minutes.

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  • marleyyy33
    11 years ago

    Im exactly in the same position except i moved away so im constanly texting him but that can be overwhlemimg for him i notice he doesn't text back as fast or much i brought it too his attention and he said he needs space which kinda mad me upset because we dont even get to see each other in person anymore thats pretty spacey enough..but you just have to understand and train yourself to give him time to.himself or your just gonna ruin the whole relationship like i did ..once your with eachother long enough you wont be as clingy and you ll get over wanting to be and talking to him constantly this is just the beginning and your really into him right now so i think its pretty damn normal

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  • Metazoa
    11 years ago

    You def are coming off as clingy like was stated. He needs time to himself as well. I can understand you wanting to be with him tho. Just don't go overboard and understand he needs some free times doing other stuff besides his times with you or you could lose him from being too attached to every thing he does. I voted as this being a normal thing cause I think alot of girls can get like this tho at times but it can come off as either being too clingy and not respecting his other things in life, controlling and or desperate.

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  • anonymous1503
    11 years ago

    you can never love your boyfriend or your husband to much.

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