Is it normal that i love my bestfriend?

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I think I love my best friend. But only when he is dating another girl. When he is single, I lose all interest. I enjoy the thrill of doing things with him when he is in a committed relationship. I feel good that I can make him cheat. Then, when he is single, he wants to get serious with me, which is a big turn off. So I just dismiss it by getting a new boyfriend and saying "sorry". Too late. I feel like I'm going to lose my best friend over all of this. He is continually distant, and not wanting to hang out alone. Mainly because he knows what will happen.(what always happens). Is it normal that I act this way? Or do I need help?

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46% Normal
Based on 65 votes (30 yes)
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  • insanelynormal
    13 years ago

    You are selfish, it's as simple as that. You're using him for your own selfish needs and not thinking of how all of this is affecting him or the people around him. Learn how to think of others or else find somebody else to bother.

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  • snowtail802
    11 years ago

    i have a crush on my best guy friend...omg so hot

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  • Michaelangelus
    13 years ago

    I don't know if that's normal but it sounds horrible.

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  • bleuemoon
    13 years ago

    i feel the same way but my story's also a bit more complicated.
    straight up, you need to stop being manipulative succubus. you may not think its quite that bad, but what you're doing to his feelings, your sanity, and your friendship is pretty much REALLY awful. explain it to him and see how it goes from there

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    Well insanely normal, you are insanely rude. You can't provide constructive criticism without the constructive part. I say tell him how you feel. Every girl has been through this one time or another

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